Some keywords for me:
glasses
43 years old
city-dwelling
BBW (politically, as well)
arty
fairly goofy
left-leaning
affectionate
cynical/idealistic
hourglassy
bookish (but not a bluestocking)
Important things that you need to know about me....
I live and breath music, I never leave home without my ipod or my blackberry. Rock/Hip Hop/R&B/ a little Country, I love it all!!!, But mostly rock from the 90's.
I am 5"3 130lbs
I have long brown hair (and yes it is all mine).
I have nice curves.
I am well educated and I am well traveled
I like to go out and have drinks with my friends every once in a while, more so since I have been single. But I am not a club head.
I love shoes, but this girlie girl can hang with the guys.
I love to watch football from pre season to the super bowl. The Bears are my favorite team.
I usually read a new book every two weeks.
I could go on and on about myself, but I rather have u pick my brain.
What I would like from you....
Looks are important part about a person, but it is only the first impression. Yes I do need to find u attractive, but I want more then just a pretty face.
I want a guy that can hold a conversation about nothing and everything.
I want a guy to be open to trying new things.
You should be able to make me laugh and smile.
I think that a guy with a little dork inside of him and is not afraid to show it is a plus.
You have to have a fully functioning brain.
You have to be fun to be around.
I would love if you watch football.
I want to be able to learn from you.
Just have a good personality!!!!!
Now for the Superficial stuff....
I like guys with a nice build, you dont have to have a six pack, but be in good shape.
I like guys with dark hair.
If u are 6feet or more that would be great.
I am open to all nationalities, but my dating history has mostly included preppy whites guys.
I like a guy that has a couple of nice tattoos, but it's not a must. (my friends say I have a good girl gone bad thing going on).
I have to say that I do have a thing for guys that can be a little cocky. It is one thing to have self confidence, it is another thing to be a complete jack ass!!! I am looking to get to know someone and see what happens. If you are only looking for a one night stand or FWB, please exit this page and go to your local bar. If you are looking to meet a pretty cool chick for a possible long term thing (You never know what might happen) or to have coffee with, then reply to this post.
One more thing about me... I'm not you average chick of color.!!!
I am educated, witty, and desire to meet only a Frenchman (French born and raised) that wants to get to know me for a possible long term relationship. You must be funny, educated, love museums, art, dining and great conversation. I seek a person single, (not married) man between the ages of 40 and 55, who knows God and serves him but not fanatical. Understands what it means to be honest and kind in his heart. Someone who loves to travel... Someone who wants to love and be loved.
These attributes delight me and I hope they delight you... Again, I want a man who is open to the possibility of friendship, love and all the things that come with it.
If you choose to respond to this ad, please do so with excitement and a sense of wanting to get to know me. Please send a photo and I will send one back once I see that you are serious...
Contrary to popular belief, I'm not latina, nor am I chubby, a work-out-aholic, tall, tattooed, smoker, coffee drinker or barfly. What I am is big into music of all kinds, old school video games, animation, reading and books. Mainstream, non mainstream, it's all the same in the end. People make snap judgments about every last movie or song or whatever. As long as it's not too much of one thing, I don't care too deeply what no-name bands, tv shows or heroes you worship and you shouldn't care about mine because I'm not gonna list them anyway (every time I list my fave artists I get a blank stare anyway!) I should add that I suck at sports, unless you count Frisbee and ping pong? I alternate between goofy and serious, depending on whose funeral :) Things I want to add to my repertoire: photography, chess master and Quickbooks :) Hobbies are important, so let's find a common ground.
I am not interested in sharing my life story in the beginning stages nor do I want you to send me yours right away. Send me some info that doesn't sound like a form letter and tells me the important stuff. It's easy to thin the herd based on someone's writing style, not to sound snobbish, but it's annoying to get one liners. It is also a big turnoff when I hear guys swear in my presence, like they need the f-word to pepper every sentence even when they're not angry. I posted in the city part but I live about an hour commute outside of the city, so if that's a problem, too bad. I still think I am cooler than half the people in the city and have no trouble getting there when I need to.
I'm done having kids, done with the drama, have my career and know what I want and am not afraid to say so.
Let me stress this next point. Communication is key. If you go missing for weeks at a time and then send a random text out of the blue.....I'm not interested. I'm no ones booty call....ever.
What I prefer/am attracted to:
Caucasian Men
Over 35 years of age
Over 5'9
Nice Attude
Kind Heart
Conversation/Good Debate Skills/Good Listening Skills
Gainfully Employed (I very much am)
Live No More Than 20 Miles From Downtown
Have Your Own Place
I have a life just like everyone else, I simply want a man to enhance it.
Hey guys, send me a picture you know you want to see one as well. Attraction is always only physical at first. If there is no initial attraction, whats the point.
So I am funny, easy to be with and very supportive. I am 5'8" a size 20 and carry it well
blackish hair and bluish eyes. I am the most reliable friend you'll ever have. I am a excellent listener, reliable, with a small amount of funny sarcasm. I am a huge music lover and like 90's music and R & B from today. I also love watching a show all sorts of stuff from cartoons to chick flicks. Don't leave yet lol..I've got lots of girlfriends to come with me to the girly ones lol. What else would you wanna know? I am always the person who is attempting to ensure that everyone around me is having fun. I really like making other people laugh. I've been working a ton on myself this last few years and now I am much happier.
So what am i looking for? So I thought up a really long list ... only playing lol! Actually I wish I could find a a gentleman, thats doesnt lie, dependable, independant, and a man that has his own place to live has to be would be huge. Also he must be understanding of my happier way of living and demand me to continue and to do fun stuff. If you like basketball or football that would be a huge plus too.
almost forgot I only recently moved back to Ellisville after a few years of living in Arizona it would be great for you to show me whats fun here!
im 28, mixed but more black than anything else, fit (like 130 lbs), kinda short, sarcastic and cute. i'm looking for a decent guy---honest TRUELY hardworking intelligent, likes books and romantic drives MUST know Jesus Please EXCEPTIONS----independant and funny! yeah i like that too!
Second, drugs are a really dumb way to throw away your potential. This includes cigs. I dont understand why invest your cold hard cash into sumthin temp and unhealty? I'll tell you what...next time you feel the need to light your money on fire, call me up and I will go blow it on a new purse. Deal?
lol ok. So either you're turned off or impressed by now. Dont even take the time to tell me im shallow or conceited. I'm doing both of us a favor by being up-front-im not going to waste time or play games. And plus, if I were to find out you did drugs, i could easily be that chicken head gurl to report it. :) Have a nice day!
If you are still reading and you are one of the few who agrees with the above, cool beans!! We are already off to a good start
I'm looking for friends first first, of course. Not married, no kids, no drama.
I love music: Well i guess not all music I am not a big fan of rap or heavy metel.. I'm more alt/rock/indie/sometimes pop. A few faves: U2, DMB, Matchbox20, The Starting Line, Jason Mraz, John Mayer, Queen, a bunch of local stuff, Red Hot Chili Peppers... you get the gist.
I am SO down with watchin movies at the crib rahter than going out to the movies. It's kinda expensive, especially if if u arent sure about the movie you're going to see. Plus, those theatre arm rest make it kinda difficult to be close! :P
I am old fashioned in a lot of ways, but I live in the real world and I certainly aint perfect. I can make and take a joke and sometimes I even show my ankles or my elbows! lmao (if u dont get it ask your granny granny...haha)
Anyhoo, I'll close this up. I'm looking for friends first, like I said, but ultimately, someone caring, corny, humble, goofy, intellectual, independent and spontaneous. And if I could be picky, I'd say no piercings (too high school) and no tattoos. (Dont wanna know what you were thinking when you got it.) Im not really attracted to smaller guys just because I'm little. Muscular/thick/fillintheblank is wat i want. Yeah yeah, and white guys too. Just stating my preference.
I have great friends and family. I love animals and have a good job. I have high hopes for my future and don't mind a guy who works hard to earn. I have been feeling pretty lonely and it doesn't help that every one I know is getting engaged! - Don't worry I am not looking to move THAT fast!
I am looking for someone who is a professional like me. Nothing against men who are laborers, its just not my thing. I like taller guys 5*10 + who are meatier and who like girls who are meatier. I have curves and do not consider my self a fat slob - you shouldn't either.
Looks wise you can range anywhere from Zach Galifianakis to Bradly Cooper as long as you like someone who is taller (5*10) and meatier.
Religion and race are not that big of a deal, but I will be honest and say I do not date black men. I would prefer that you have a job and are looking to form a relationship because I am not looking for a friend with benefits.
Age is also not a big deal. I bond pretty well with men who are older though (30 and up) because I am pretty mature for my age.
I live in the burbs, but work in the city and also went to school downtown. All my friends are in the city and I often stay with family and friends. I am pretty much a city girl. I would prefer you lived in the city just because its hard enough traveling back and forth for work - I don't want to travel back and forth to different suburbs.
I am a really happy silly yet serious at times kind of girl. I have black hair and blue eyes with an eclectic sense of style.
If you fit the bill email me with a little bit about your self and a picture if you feel comfortable!
love to go out on one date, love to find a good friend, someone to get close to - for anything that would work out.
life is much more exciting when knowing someone fun and nice and whom you get along with.
would love to try to find any commonalities with you.
1. A damn good woman
2. Intelligent
3. Kind and caring.
4. Open-minded
5. A romantic and passionate person.
One more thing, I love God and I hope you love Him too. If you have any questions please feel free to hit me up. Take care and God bless. The things I like to do are
1. Movies
2. Sports
3. Shooting Pool
4. Bowling
5. Long walks in the park.
6. Staying home
I PREFER A WHITE MAN OR A HISPANIC MAN THAT ONLY DATES A AFRICAN-AMERICAN WOMAN FOR A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP.
IF YOU ARE A (( SUBMISSIVE MAN )) WHO IS LOOKING FOR THE SAME THING, YOU CAN HIT ME UP AS WELL
I would like to meet a respectable man who is honest and thoughtful. I would like to meet a Christian man. I am not getting any younger you guys.. LOL So if this sound like you, hit me up. Please please do not, I repeat do not waste my time. I don't have time 4 mind games. What I'm looking for in a man is
1. Aman that LOVE THE LORD
2. A good man
3. Provider
4. Honest
5. Trustworthy
6. Who knows how to treat a woman
7. Love me for me.
I know for a fact that, I am a GREAT woman,,, seeing my man happy makes me happy. I want to give him the world, my life, my heart, my everything, and treat m like a "KING", But I want you to do the same for me and treat me like a "QUEEN ". In the book of Proverb (bible)18:22 "Who so findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the lord".
I really want to settle down with a great guy who want to build a good life and family together. If you are ready to settle soon, I'm right here, but we have to take it slow. We have to be on the same page, And please don't say you want to be with me, but you still have you profile online, because once "WE" become a couple our profile is coming down. That what happen to me when I mat a guy on this site. I dont have time for no B. S.
I am loving, generous, loyal , spiritual, educated, good job, fun personality.... The list can go on. ;)
I enjoy a nice glass of wine but I do not drink much. Maybe once or twice a week I will indulge in two or three glasses of wine. I never understood people who feel the need to drink 4 or 5 or 10 drinks in one night. I find that unappealing and that might also be a problem :)
I am looking for a man who is confident, financially secure, educated, loving and ready to settle down. I prefer a man to be over 5'9" or taller. In decent shape but does go to the gym at least a few times a week. I go to the gym a few times a week and I am in decent shape. Always trying to improve.
I enjoy going out to dinner, movies, theater, making dinner, Starbucks on North Avenue, walking on the Lake, etc...
I would prefer to date someone between the ages of 35 and 45. Single of course, It would be great if you have kids. I do love kids. I am open to having kids but I am not day dreaming about them but I am day dreaming about you :)
Please send a picture with your response, telling me a bit about yourself. I'm partial to all emails with pictures included. I don't mind sending you pictures of me in return. I will not respond to emails asking me questions to which the answers can be found in this post, emails simply requesting me for a picture, or emails requesting sexual favors.
A woman wants a man to make love to her - mind, body and soul. That all important part that men so look forward to known as "ejaculation", should be the "reward" of good love making, not the goal. For goodness sake, spend more than 2 damn minutes when it comes to foreplay (you know: kissing, caressing, cuddling, hugging, touching, licking, sucking, fondling, exploring, teasing, etc.). Trust me, a woman would GLADLY return with the same. When both are involved in the act of foreplay, it just makes it so much better for both parties, because it becomes a totally erotic, arousing, sexual experience.
How many of you know the skin is the largest body organ? No, most men think their penis is the largest organ on the male body (LMBO). The touching and caressing of the skin (done correctly – softly and gently) can be a wonderful sensual experience for both. Skin on skin – kissing it, licking it, hugging it, ever so softly, gently, with warmth and tenderness, creates a wonderful feeling inside. With the right setting - low lights, soft music, and a pleasant scent in the room - talking about setting a body on FIRE!!! This could be done in total silence or with a soft spoken word here and there. The longer, the more intense it is. This is the "love making to the mind" phase also known as FOREPLAY. And trust me, it takes longer than 2 or 3 minutes.
Then when the moment is right, and you move on to the next "phase" don't act like it's race. DAMN!!! Keep that same smooth pace that led to that moment. Then after some time spent ummm "slow stroking" and "teasing", hey, do what cha gotta do from there. LOL
Guys, the hold point here is to make love to the body and the mind. Not just a "boom-bam, thank you and then you're up and out". Even if you are up and out afterwards, you don't have to totally treat a woman like a piece of meat while you are laying with her. But this is even worst when a woman is in a committed relationship and she loves everything about her man, EXCEPT when it's comes to his ummm...bedroom skills. The man thinks he has really done something. But all he has done is left his woman frustrated as he turns over and starts snoring.
Man!! You hear that? What? R Kelly's "Imagine That". Oh that's my song!!! Come, dance with me.
Babe…you know it drives me crazy when you gently kiss my neck like that. But please…mmmm…. don't stop. hehehe
I smell good? Thanks Babe. I'm wearing that perfume that you love so much. My skin is so soft? Hehehe…you always say that as you caress and kiss my neck… my arms…my back…my breast. Hmmmm…you just make me melt inside every time you touch me. I feel so safe and warm in your embrace. Hmmmm……
……to be continued.
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This is not an ad for a booty call, one night stand, FWB or a hit it and out thang. I’m looking to build towards a serious LTR. You know, where you get to know one another as “people” before you become lovers. If this is not what you are looking for, please check the next post.
We are about to start a new year....so why not start a new relationship? You never know.....
Send RESPECTFUL responses with name, age, a little something about yourself and a pic or 2 and you'll get the same in return.
ME:
Single
Gainfully employed
College educated
Drama/Drug/Disease free
Social drinker
Affectionate and romantic
Not on meds of any type
I don’t mind cuddling at home sometimes, but I like to get out and about too
Race = Black
Hmm. Me. I am a petite, green-eyed brunette with a propensity for interesting records and reading materials, foodstuffs, drinking, smoking, baseball, pinball, table shuffleboard, spelling, Scrabble, trivia, cards, and retardedly comic behaviour.
In a fella, I tend to prefer the tallish/bigger-ish types, though I can be swayed otherwise, say, if you're hilarious or terribly interesting or I like something particular about your nose. Hey, everybody has their thing. Also, you will receive huge appreciation for a well-written message. Hooray!
So, I guess that I should tell you a little bit about me. I'm a 26 year old glasses wearing self proclaimed nerd, who likes to hide away from the cold with a good book or movie and something hot to drink. I love: to make vegan baked goods, zines, records, tattoo's, guys who have plugs, make random list, wine, art, porches, comix, dance around to brit pop. French films, mix tapes,vegan pancakes, naps, cuddling, and music.
Tell me about: the last album you bought, your favorite comics, and favorite food.
I'm looking for an amazing man, and I hope he comes across my ad because it's pretty specific.
I'm a well educated, very attractive (no exaggeration) professional who is very attracted to intellectual and clean-cut black men. I've dated some very prominent black men in the past, but this is the first time I've used Craig's List for a connection. I think I would be most compatible with a college professor or athletic coach (doesn't matter what sport) because I think we'd have a lot in common.
About me: I'm what you call statuesque, tall with a great shape. I've got medium length blond hair, blue eyes and a smile certain to light up every room I enter. My style is more sophisticated than sexy, but don't let the button-down corporate look fool you: I love to laugh and have fun.
About you: Please be SINGLE, black, tall, athletic and well dressed. You don't have to have muscles bulging out everywhere, but I do prefer my men to be very much in shape. Also, please be a city dweller or have a car so you can get to the city. A well-cultured man who appreciates fine dining and wine will also get my attention.
So I am pleasant, super cool and very supportive. I am five foot six, a bigger sized gurl but i wear it right
redish hair and green eyes. I am the most dependable friend you'll ever have. I am a excellent listener, independant, with a little bit of funny sarcasm. I am a major music lover and love 70's music and country from today. I also love catching movies or plays anything from horror to chick flicks. Don't stop reading now lol..I've got lots of girlfriends to go with me to the chick flicks lol. What else might you wanna know? I am often the person who is attempting to ensure that everyone around me is enjoying themselves. I really love making other people laugh. I've been working a bunch on myself this last couple months and now i am much happier.
what it is I am looking for in a man? So I thought up a laundry list ... only joking lol! Actually I want to find a an individual, thats doesnt beat women, dependable, independant, and a man that has his own place to live has to be would be incredible. Also he has to be understanding of my happier way of living and require me to continue and to do fun stuff. If you like racing or football that would be a major plus too.
almost forgot I only recently moved back to Flora after a couple years of living in Minnesota it would be great for you to show me whats new and exciting to do!
I'm 23, mixed races black and domincan got a nice body. PAY ATTENTION: Im looking for someone NEAR my age range! Not somebody thats 57 and has 10 kids. I'm not looking for perfection just dont be a complete a hole. Really tho Im not conceited at all I play around a LOT and I'm real stupid once i get comfortable wit u.