My Interest~
The guy I'm looking for.. has to be attractive, smart, funny, romantic, caring, sweet, honest, committed.. masculine, but also sensitive to my feelings. I need a guy, that really does know how to treat his boyfriend and make sure he shows that he really does care for him. Also, I'm tired of liars/cheats.. cheating is cheating.. no matter what excuse you have.. even if you have sex with another guy and there was no feelings towards it, it's still cheating.. Its just as simple as that.. You know what I mean. Also, if your already interested in someone else.. and your also interested in me, I'm not competing for you with another guy..
Past/Future~
Well.. anyways, my ex and I broke up when I left Ohio.. He couldn't handle the distance between us and I was really hurt from the experience. Also, I've had a lot of bad relationships and I'm just looking for the right guy. I've honestly have never been the cause of any of my relationships going bad.. I've been cheated and lied to countless times and I'm tired of it.. I think if I get hurt again, I'll be done with looking for the right one.. As my future goes, I'm hoping to spend the rest of my life with someone and enjoy every moment with them. After I get older, I do want kids in my life.. but that isn't for a few years to come.
Myself~
Ok.. so.. I'm not conceited in anyway, but.. I'm just one of very few great guys left on this planet.. honestly. I really do take care of my man and show him.. that he is wonderful and important. I'm very attractive, or at least I think so.. I mean, I was a model when I first moved here, but no more.. I'm fit, and I'm not chubby.. I do like to eat, but I also like to eat right.. I love to cuddle and watch movies.. I love the outdoors as well. I am a more masculine guy.. and I'm not even attracted to fem guys.. I'm gay for a reason.. looking for a man.. not a boy, that acts like a girl.. if that was the case, I would of dated a girl in the first place..lol.
Me: 42, discreet, 6'2, 215, single black male. Looking for: 21-45, not out, HWP--a little thin or a little bit extra is ok too, black or white, cut, non-smoker /light smoker. No femmes. You are ultra discreet, due to personal preference, family, and/or job (e.g. cop, fireman, politician, etc...), yet you yearn for the right guy who will respect your need for discretion.
People of quality: Where are you? I get tons of responses from married guys or guys w/ girlfriends. Or single guys who want to continue hooking up with other guys. I'd prefer to meet someone I don't have to share sexually, but I have started to believe this may not be possible. (Very sad commentary on this life.) A resounding NOT INTERESTED to anyone partnered or who plan to continue sleeping / hooking up with other men. Surely there are guys out there with substance, someone who actually has heart and personality and seek more than an occassional hook-up. That's who I'd like to meet. Don't want you to broadcast your desires to the world; just be in tune with this part for each other.
I'm 48 years old, completely disease free, 140 lbs., five feet five inches tall,
kinda geeky with not a lot of hair left on top. I always play safe.
Downers Grove area......hope to find someone local who wants a lot more than a one-nighter.
I can't host, sorry. Due to the economy I'm currently
living with some Evangelical housemates who are very un-cool
and they'd probably tie me to a cross and try to exorcise me if they
ever found out my orientation. So discreet is way important here.
Also way important is being completely disease free. If you can't
state so in your first email I'll delete it. Being "undetectable" or
"not having anything active" isn't disease free, BTW. Let's face
it.... condoms are far from perfect .... and a manufacturing defect
shouldn't lead to tragedy.
I am absolutely real, and am looking for that special someone who would like to become part of my family, and be ready to get as much out of a real loving, nurturing relationship, as she is willing to put into it. I am straight, and by most standards "vanilla"..... We just want to share our life with one more person.
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO TO VERIFY THAT YOU ARE REAL, IS TO MENTION ANYTHING SPECIFIC ABOUT THIS POST.
Any reply that does not mention how you feel about my post, (be specific) will be deleted .
Also any mention of signing up for any web site, or chat, will also be deleted.
Many of my friends wouldn't consider me you 'typical' gay guy, because I am just too weird to be gay. Its hard to explain but when you meet me, you will see it!
I have a great love for nerdy things (reading, computer, video games) and still have my preppy side (shopping, reality tv, etc.). I try to stay up to date with the constant changes of life! Its the only way to maintain a great balance!
Most people place me on the border of cute (with glasses) and sexy (without them), even though I tend to not believe them... I keep myself confident!
WHat else is there to this?? UMMMMM!!!... OH!!!
I am extremely hyper, romantic, outgoing, love to dance, and pretty random when I desire to not be random. I have a passion for writing
and my brain is always on the creative side. I've been labeled husband material by many girls, which I tend to find creepy, seeing that
most of them are lesbians. I have pretty of goals and ambitions and I went from starting with nothing when I moved here, to pretty much
building up a new life of friends and dreams. I think I kick butt!!! Except for when I try to spell, then I suck!!! xD
WHat I am Looking for you Ask?
I'm not picky like most guys. Any race is cool with me as long as you have a great personality.I want a guy who knows what he wants without all the BS. Someone who can accept me for my flaws and I will do the same for him. I like guys that take good care of themselves ( body and mind) and someone who is very ambitious. I like guys around my age so I would say 20-27 is perfect, unless you think you have something awesome to offer and I will totally give you a try!! :) Be romantic and different and have a perky sense going on about you, and we would work out fine. I want to date since my dating life doesn't exist, so yeah... lets hit it BIG!!! Like SUPER BIG!!!
I have a pic up and more if needed, but please reply with one so I can know who I am potentially talking to. =) Hope to hear from you soon!!!
My characteristics are: 6 feet 1 inch tall, brown hair and eyed, athletic built, mixed italian-indian origin, globally traveled, adventurous, caring, good smelling. DDF and expect the same.
As long as this ad is up, I am available. I can host or travel for a classy person. You can contact me on Y! mail or messenger. My id is : kcorrela
___ ____________________________________________________________________________________________________ Training Sessions because of the arrangement would be only $10 per session.
What type of person am I looking for? I don't have a type. Really. When I am looking at a woman I see her eyes, her smile, and her hair. I could care less if she is skinny or overweight. Short or tall. Brown eyes or blue. None of that matters when what I am interested comes from inside a person. Are you fun? Funny? Can you take a joke? Are you sarcastic, witty, outgoing?I don't care if you are older then me or younger then me, but I think at least in the mid 20's so we have something to talk about would help. As far as how old I am looking for - I have no age limit. You are as old as you want to be. Again, I am not concerned over a number. Do you have a need I can fulfill for you? I'm not selfish. In fact very giving. Not of money or gifts, but of myself.
Physically I am 6 feet tall. I have a belly/husky build. If you want to know more just ask.
Ideally, I am looking for a dominant guy
I am not into s&m, or b&d, scat, golden showers.
That being said, if it safe and not gross
I will do what you say.
Will accept paddling, humiliation, orders.
If you are submissive, I will do these things to you,
but am mainly looking for someone who likes to be served,
and maybe serviced.
Yes, I am single and I am at a point where I'm ready for a relationship, but not putting any pressure on it at all.
Find more common things with men in their 30's to 40's, Latino, Euro, American but not a must, hwp, and handsome
Someone kind and selfless, someone dependable and trustful. Someone capable of having an intellectual conversation and arguing his point of view. Someone worldly. Someone who keeps up with the current events. Someone with whom we could learn from each other. Someone who's family-oriented.Someone spontaneous enough to plan a quick trip somewhere, but level-headed enough to afford it :)
You can give Rudolph and the boys a bit of a break and, instead of putting my "present" in the sleigh, you can just ask him to e-mail me so we can start talking. Then, somewhere around Christmas, he and I can meet up on our own. Since you and I have known each other for all 36 years of my life, you know exactly what I look like, but since my "present" will be a wonderful man, you'll probably need to tell him what I look like. You can tell him that I'm still 5'8", since it's the holidays, I've put on a few pounds recently so I'm now 185 lbs, as I'm sure you remember I have dark blond hair but the hairline has receded a bit more since last Christmas, but my blue eyes are just as bright as that first Christmas I sat on your lap and you said "HO HO HO!" to me. Just make sure to tell my guy all the good stuff about me - that I've got a great sense of humor, I'm intelligent, I have a stable career, close friends and a family who I love, and that I have a heart as big as your tummy, Santa!
As far as physical appearance goes, I don’t have any one particular type. I can tell you I favor guys with medium to dark hair. Though, I’ve seen some very hot guys with premature grey or bald or buzzed. So, OK, I get hot looking at Mario Lopez because I love his smile, his dimples, his eyes, and his outgoing personality all wrapped up in a masculine aura. I’m not expecting to meet someone like him off of here nor have I ever dated anyone who looked like that. In my years of dating, I’ve gone out with guys who had body types anywhere from skinny to bear (typically, more muscular bears who work out somewhat regularly). One thing is for sure, I need to look at your face and want to kiss it. There’s definitely got to be some physical chemistry there. I don’t want to hop in bed right away, however. It would be nice just to enjoy the spark of attraction without acting on it fully right away. My best relationships have all been with men that I didn’t sleep with right away. I see no reason to change that now at my advanced age. Speaking of age, I think I’d like to meet someone 35-55. Here are some other things I expect to represent you:
*Smoke free
*Drug free
*Get some regular exercise (so I guess that means I’m really not into the super chub guys)
*Responsible with drinking alcohol
*Nice teeth and good hygiene
*Likes cats and is not allergic to them
*Likes the picture I have posted :-)
If you look at my pic, you may notice that I’m a bit of a bear type guy. I’m carrying about 40 extra pounds. I’ve started back at the gym and I’ve given up sugar. I’m hoping you are someone who, although you may be just fine with bear type guys, will support my weight loss effort. I lost 119 pounds in about 18 months. I can do 40 pounds again.
Sexually speaking, I haven’t been a bottom in over 22 years. So, if being a top is something you see in our future, you better have the patience of a saint because you ain’t gettin’ that kind of sugar for a good, long time. If you are a true bottom, you’re in better luck….unless, of course, you are taller than about 5”11”. I’m 5’9”. I can’t handle tall bottoms. I feel like a Chihuahua mounting a Great Dane.
I'm decent-looking - furry / belly - not toned.
Beard and hairy, but not a rug.
Blue eyes. Gentle and strong.
Educated and employed.
Sober and sane.
I'm sixfour (tall), and have a 40 waist and 13 shoe size.
I'm strong and sometimes guys think I'm a little rough.
Not mean, but when I give back massages sometimes I don't know my strength.
Not into pain, a little fun and adventure is cool, but nothing real nasty.
I'm a total top, but I'm really oral and like to play around with the guy I'm with.
I'm monogamous.
I'm HIV neg.
I'm kind of "thick," but nothing a good bottom guy can't handle.
I'm a good kisser and love to cuddle.
Good conversation and can talk about more than Lady Gaga (or whatever her name is).
I pay my bills.
I don't go to bars and clubs and I don't want to fuck your friends - and I won't want you to fuck mine.
No open "relationship" kind of deal.
I don't judge and don't hate, but it's not my thing.
I've been around the block a few times.
I have my scars from the gay "lifestyle."
I'm not jaded or bitter or unable to connect emotionally.
And I'm not stupid.
I KNOW this is Craigslist - but again, this is the season for hope, right?
Here's what I'm kind of / sort of looking for:
a guy who is intelligent and kind
compassionate and informed
probably a little younger
a little smaller
a little smoother
and I'm German and like guys
a little darker (latin / black).
Chemistry is important, but if you're sweet and passionate and like to cuddle...
that is the most important (and hardest to find).
Let's be honest: I'm decent looking, but there are better-looking guys out there.
I've dated some very attractive men - but there were always "cuter" guys out there.
I'm really hoping to find a guy who has time and availablity to spend some quality time.
I'm around evenings and weekends - so you probably should have some free time around then, too.
It's not so important what kind of job you have or what kind of car you drive (or not).
I would rather hang out with an interesting dishwasher than a boring guy who is convinced that he is amazing.
I really would rather date someone who is a good compliment to me.
I'm not looking for a carbon copy.
I don't want to date myself - boring.
I want to meet a guy who sparks off me and I spark off him and we go different and new places together than we ever would have gone alone.
If all this makes sense to you - let's talk?
I'm around. Pretty open to meeting and talking with people.
Looking for friends....
but it would be pretty amazing to find a nice guy this time of year....
I know my age is against me. One man repsonded to my posting a while ago and was rather mean when he told me no one would ever go out with an old troll like you.
But Santa, I think there are men of every age, say Santa 25 -50, who are asking you for the same thing. Maybe you can help us find each other. By the way, Santa, if you have the power, can they be tall, dark haired, and have a hairy chest. OK, to much to ask. I don't want a Ken doll...I want a real man with a great heart, sense of humor, and the unusual ability to allow someone to love him.
By the way, Santa, I do not believe you are not a good role model...what's not to like about a man who loves children and provides hope.
Me: A professional and health-conscious man. I am balanced with other life interests including writing, reading, photography, skiing, roadtrips, food (okay, if you are a wiz in the kitchen you have 1,000 bonus points), friends, and laughter.
Stats: Black male, 6'4", 195lbs, trim build, 33"w, goatee, nice smile.
I only respond to replies that have some sort of substance.
I'm intellectually-oriented, very cosmopolitan, and I love the fine arts - including many different kinds of music, foreign/independent films, literature, theater, you name it - and getting to know other people, their cultures and languages. I am also a laid back guy who both have AND treasure a great sense of humor - wait to hear me crack up! :-). I love walking, jogging, swimming and keeping myself at the least minimally fit. I lament I don't get to go out camping and hiking as often as I'd like to (maybe you can help me with that :). And I most definitely love spending quality time with friends, going out and talking and eating with them. Overall speaking, I'm extroverted and adventurous, and the type of masculine gay guy who also happens to be very romantic. I like my dancing once in a while but clubs and bars are definitely not the first things that come to my mind when I think of going out. 'Attitude' is an English word I keep at a distance, let's say I show my attitude to it :). And gayness is a much welcomed, joyful part of my worldview, but NOT my sole worldview.
I've always been passionate about the so-called 'ultimate questions.' For years, I focused on the answers that progressive, ecumenical Christianity provide to those questions. Nowadays, however, I'm more of an agnostic. My admiration for Aquinas hasn't waned a bit but I now dedicate just as much attention to Philosophy proper and the natural sciences (I'm particularly captivated by Cosmology!). All in all, my spiritual and intellectual quest is still very much alive and unfolding. The questions have grown again, and I seek to answer them differently. I hold a BA in Theology and did some grad studies in the same area. I'm now working my way into a Ph.D. program combining religion and critical thinking. Eventually, I'd like to become a professor and researcher. For the time being, I do jobs that pay my bills, currently as a waiter, a lawyer's assistant, and a translator (English to Spanish).
I'm looking for an openly gay or bisexual man who feels at the least intrigued when he reads this profile. Ideally, he would be masculine, educated, fun and romantic, from his mid twenties to late thirties, and preferably Latin American, Caucasian/European or Middle Eastern/Arab. He'd also be somewhat cute and fit (any combination of thin, lean, athletic, swimmer, runner, muscular), HIV negative, either a top or mostly a top, a non-smoker, non-drug user and a social drinker. If he likes poetry, or is also interested in the 'ultimate questions,' all the better, but I don't want to be asking for too much :).
Just in case we get that far, I ONLY play safe, I'm HIV-neg./DD-free and impeccably clean and expect the same in all these fronts.
I prefer a fun natured guy that is spontaneous, isn't much into the bar scene, drives, likes to travel, into sport(not required), cute, employed, normal and ethical and under 48.
I'm intellectually-oriented, very cosmopolitan, and I love the fine arts – including many different kinds of music, foreign/independent films, literature, theater, you name it – and getting to know other people, their cultures and languages. I am also a laid back guy who both have AND treasure a great sense of humor – wait to hear me crack up! :-). I love walking, jogging, swimming and keeping myself at the least minimally fit. I lament I don't get to go out camping and hiking as often as I'd like to (maybe you can help me with that :). And I most definitely love spending quality time with friends, going out and talking and eating with them. Overall speaking, I'm extroverted and adventurous, and the type of masculine gay guy who also happens to be very romantic. I like my dancing once in a while but clubs and bars are definitely not the first things that come to my mind when I think of going out. 'Attitude' is an English word I keep at a distance, let's say I show my attitude to it :). And gayness is a much welcomed, joyful part of my worldview, but NOT my sole worldview.
I've always been passionate about the so-called 'ultimate questions.' For years, I focused on the answers that progressive, ecumenical Christianity provide to those questions. Nowadays, however, I'm more of an agnostic. My admiration for Aquinas hasn't waned a bit but I now dedicate just as much attention to Philosophy proper and the natural sciences (I'm particularly captivated by Cosmology!). All in all, my spiritual and intellectual quest is still very much alive and unfolding. The questions have grown again, and I seek to answer them differently. I hold a BA in Theology and did some grad studies in the same area. I'm now working my way into a Ph.D. program combining religion and critical thinking. Eventually, I'd like to become a professor and researcher. For the time being, I do jobs that pay my bills, currently as a lawyer's assistant, a waiter and a translator (English to Spanish).
I'm looking for an openly gay or bisexual man who feels at the least intrigued when he reads this profile. Ideally, he would be masculine, educated, fun and romantic, from his mid twenties to late thirties, and preferably Latin American, Caucasian/European or Middle Eastern/Arab. He'd also be somewhat cute and fit (any combination of thin, lean, athletic, swimmer, runner, muscular), HIV negative, either a top or mostly a top, a non-smoker, non-drug user and a social drinker. If he likes poetry, or is also interested in the 'ultimate questions,' all the better, but I don't want to be asking for too much :).
Just in case we get that far, I ONLY play safe, I'm HIV-neg./DD-free and impeccably clean and expect the same in all these fronts.