Must be a non-smoker/drug user/HIV neg.
Must be fully employed or independently wealthy (*wink)
Must be monogamously oriented
Should be around my age +/- 10 years
Should be average to fit physically– a little overweight is fine with me.
Helps if you like the outdoors/wildlife/animals/plants
Helps if you like exploring restaurants
Looking for that special individual to share life's good and bad. Someone to take vacations with, eat dinner, say good-morning and how was your day, watch TV together, grocery shopping, paying bills and all the other normal things in life we seem to take for granted.
I live in the NW Suburbs (Arlington Heights, Schaumburg area) and work in the west loop.
My Interests: I enjoy healthy living, working out, nature hikes, biking (when it's warmer out), long walks, mundane or thought-provoking discussions, films, music, reading, visiting festivals or museums, metaphysics, technology, and relaxing at home. What would be even better is sharing my interests and love with that special guy.
About You: I would like to hear from a single gay male, who is caring, compassionate, and emotionally available; someone between the ages of 21 and 60, a nonsmoker, not into the bar or club scene, and who's seeking a committed, monogamous, and passionate relationship. I also would like to hear from a guy who's not into hook-ups, friends with benefits, or anal and kinky sex. But who's still just as loving, sensual, and passionate. And someone who enjoys the physical intimacy of cuddling, hugging, and snuggling.
If what I mentioned sounds like yourself and what you're seeking, do feel free to reply. Your reply will receive a prompt response. Also when replying, do not request a photo or send a photo of yourself. I would rather you tell me a little bit about yourself. We can always exchange photos after getting to know one another over the phone and prior to meeting in person.
I am not posting pics this time...Someone said I shouldn't advertise my face...So if u wanna get to know me..then u have to really get to know me.Face pics can come afterwords.
.I am not a negative person...But I am not willing to settle for the first guy to promise me the moon..It wouldn't fit in my pocket anyway..
Here is the post that I posted before..I truly believe what I wrote..
So I know I have posted a lot looking for sex..what can I say..I am a very sexual guy...But lately( and U may email me and laugh if u want) I am longing for something more. Something more then the simple blow and go...Someone you actually want to spend the night..and wake up with in the morning. I will be honest..I havent dated in years, long term realtionship gone bad..turned me into a love hater..But there is always room to change right
What I am looking for is someone whos been there...and whos looking for more. Two Friends recently got engaged and really have made me think where I am at this stage in my life. I want a guy who can talk to me, really hold a conversation, and who makes me laugh. Looks arent that super important to me, but I think general attraction between each other has to be there for anything. I really am only attracted to white or latin guys...(sorry..please no hate mail). A guy who takes care of himself is important to...beyond body etc...Someone who has a passion for something...Someone who generally loves to laugh...more too...
Some things I enjoy are movies, being outdoors, a good turkey sandwhich, crazy people on the 22 or 36, working out, expensive bedding, laughing for hours at nothing, ...I can go on and on.
I wanna know about you..Really looking to hang out and talk..get to know each other..Teach me that there is more to men then thier penis...
This is kinda short..but I would rather talk in person and start from there...The pics are of me...Honest and truthful..right from the start..
Email me something witty..and sending a pic always helps...
Send back a description of who you are and more specifics of what you are looking for - pics are nice - but optional if you are concerned about discretion.
Let's figure out a safe way to connect in person - see if there is a spark and then light the fire.....
If you to are looking for a "nsa fwb" that's ongoing, then please send your pic (no porn I'm looking for a gentleman) and tell me a little about yourself and I'll do the same in return.
Since I'm unable to travel and must stay local, you should be local and again able to host.
I am looking for a companion, a friend, a lover for a drama free, mutually beneficial friendship. If it develops into something more I am not opposed, its what I am ultimately looking for.
Why is it so hard to find a good TV/TG that is not into games.
I enjoy mfm three-ways a great deal. And she should like taking on two guys, she likes everything from kissing and making-out with a guy, to oral sex (both giving and receiving, I love giving). Of course she likes to fuck---or, rather loves BEING FUCKED in every position and long and hard. She enjoys fast, hard sweaty fucking, loves to be held down and fucked senseless. Merciless pounding makes her cum all over a big cock. Would love to try double penetration.
He does not necessarily have to be a bi guy, but I'd prefer someone who'd be comfortable with some fairly kinky bi-ish role-play. i.e. a fantasy where both of you go down on me sucking my cock to completion and sharing my orgasm in a kiss. I have another fantasy that I think is pretty hot in which she is making-out with me while you 'service' both of us orally, licking her pussy and sucking my cock while we both passionately kiss and make out with each other. Another fantasy I love; her and you in a 69 while she's being fucked doggies style and you underneath sucking her clit, and licking and sucking my hanging ball as we fuck...Other fantasies include you helping her prepare me orally, putting on my condom for me and guiding me into her pussy, me pulling out of her just as I’m about to orgasm and giving you a facial or pulling out and putting my cock in your mouth, making you swallow my cum.
So, if you're out there and looking for a serious relationship - drop me an email. Be sure to attach a picture. Some level of attraction is important - but compatability, personality and other factors are important as well. I'm looking for someone withn 5 years of my age.
I am a very handsome dominant 35 year old Caucasian male. I stand 6' 1" tall, 210 pounds. I love to work-out 3 to 5 days per week, so i have a firm toned athletic build with nice arms, legs, chest. And a great ass. I don't smoke (if you smoke it's ok), don't use drugs, lite social drinker (wine & beer only), open minded, fun loving, down to earth and gainfully employed.
I have a very erotic mind. More than most people.
So do to that, i have been searching out a special type of female. One who is one the same page as me.
I have tried placing personal profile everware. With little luck. So, i have decided to send this copy and pasted email to females posting on craigslist.
So please again. Forgive me if you feel i am out of line here. So after you read whats to come. And you feel offended. Than please reply with a piece of your mind, or don't reply, and mark my address as spam and delete this email message.
If you are the female i am seeking. Please Please let me know!
The female i seek!
Must be: First a foremost, She must be into, or very interested in exploring and/or being trained in the ART of EROTICA, and Erotic Submission. But only in the bedroom, and bedroom only. I am not into controlling anyones life.
Also, I am not a hard DOM. I am what is know as a "SOFT DOM" I AM NOT into inflicting, or drawing any:
>serious pain
>Blood
>Licking anything off boots or the floor
>Golden shower's
>Use of needles
>Punching or kicking
>Face slapping
>Total disrespect
>Anything you do not enjoy
She must enjoy SOME or ALL of the following:
>Using the SAFE WORD!
>Giving full control
>Being stripped naked, and/or being ordered to disrobe on command
>Obeying and fulfilling erotic commands on me, or yourself
>Being erotically teased with erotic toys and/or equipment
>Being blindfolded
>Being forced to kneel before
>Having your hair pulled
>Being spanked
>Being erotically teased
>Pleasure torture and/or punishment
>Being brought to orgasm multiple times
>Being brought close to orgasm, over and over as a form of pleasure torture
I am not seeking a one night stand. Or a prostitute. And i am not into late night pick-ups.
I am not interested in just jumping into bed with you on the first meeting.
No, I want to take it slow (baby steps), get to know and trust each other first.
I will ask you often if you are ready to begin erotic sessions.
If you agree to start. We will start at a slow easy pace.
I am seeking ONE, and only ONE! On-going "SUB/DOM" erotic discreet ongoing relationship.
With a normal female. Who has a desire for the above mentioned treatment.
You will find me of medium height and weight. I look after myself physically, am reasonably attractive and successful in my professional career. I am also a denizen of the north side of the city and the northern and northwestern suburbs. I seek one special woman to join me in recapturing the caring, desire, and pleasure that’s currently missing in both our lives; someone to get lost with and find what we’ve both been missing.
Hi, I'm J... I'm 23 years old, African-American... 5'9... 175lb, med built with a slight imjection of cute and sexy.
I moved to Chicago a year and a half ago from Texas, just to try something new in my small life.
Many of my friends wouldn't consider me you 'typical' gay guy, because I am just to weird to be gay.
I have a great love for nerdy things (reading, computer, video games) and still have my preppy side (shopping, reality tv, etc.)
Most people place me on the border of cute (with glasses) and sexy (without them), even though I tend to not believe them... LOL
WHat else?? OH YEAH!!!!
I am extremely hyper, romantic, outgoing, love to dance, and pretty random when I desire to not be random. I have a passion for writing
and my brain is always on the creative side. I've been labeled husband material by many girls, which I tend to find creepy, seeing that
most of them are lesbians. I have pretty of goals and ambitions and I went from starting with nothign when I moved here, to pretty much
building up a new life of friends and dreams. I think I kick butt!!!
WHat I am Looking for? I am sure you're wondering:
I'm not picky like most guys. ANy race is cool with me as long as you have a great personality. I like guys that take good care of themselves ( body and mind) and someone who is very ambitious. I like guys around my age so I would say 20-27 is perfect, unless you think you have something awesome to offer and I will totally give you a try!! :) Be romantic and different and have a perky sense going on about you, and we would work out fine. I want to date since my dating life doesn't exist, so yeah... lets hit it BIG!!!
I have a pic up and more if needed, but please reply with one so I can know who I am potentially talking to. =) Hope to hear from you soon!!!
I am by my true nature, very, very romantic, passionate and sensual in my sexual expression. Sexually, I'm a bottom, who, upon request, can be a top, with fingers and toys. Therefore, your appendage is encouraged to explore the caverns of my body. For those men who declare themselves "total tops", I'm willing to accommodate to be a "total bottom". My tactlile technique is very accomplished and the entirety of your epidermis will be the field of my playful sensuous attention. I'm not into "rough" or "sex pig" sex. I do not care for sexual expressions that include my being demeaned, forced or called dirty insulting names. I am not opposed to your wearing erotic attire of your choosing, except feminine clothing and I have a white workman's "hard hat" for your adornment, waiting in my closet (tool belt included). (Smile)! Please note that wearing erotic costumes and/or "role play" is not a requirement, but only an extra "treat" for those desirous of such playful activites. Your external appearance is of less importance to me. I am more attracted to the man you wish to share with me and I how feel when I'm in your company. Your genitalia size is of no consequence. No matter your size, I will do all those things one can do when "worshiping at the temple of erectile tissue" and much more. When in the presence of your company, your sated bliss will be the focused task at "hand". When playing sexually, I play absolutely Safe, therefore, your HIV status will not be an issue. Please be assured when playing sexually, I will make every effort towards the protection and safety of the both of us in all the we should choose to engage in.
When considering a man for dating and a committed relationship, my attraction is to the "man" inside the man. His personality, character make-up, values, morals, goals, aspirations, sense of humor, gentleness, generosity, awareness of self, honesty and forthrightness, are all the attributes and qualities I seek and admire in a man. The man I would choose to be with over time needs to have some intellectual and emotional awareness of himself as a man, as a sexual being, as a friend and as a life partner. In addition, the man I would like to have in my life should have a mature understanding of his own "life's journey" and "spiritual path", who will make every effort to be his most geniune and authentic "Self" with me and will appreciate all that I do in return to be my most "true" self with him. I believe in the equality of all relationships and the relationship I would like to have will foster and promote being respectful of and toward each other, will have a deep abiding level of intimacy, will encourage individuality, personal/spiritual growth, and in time, will not only reflect our commitment to each other, but also the integrity of the relationship we have built together.
You should know that social imbibing and the partaking of smoke materials is acceptable, but over indulgence will not be appreciated.
Since, I am single, live alone along Chicago's far North side lake front and have no encumbrances, therefore, I am able to host without any pre-existing impediments. I have a car and I'm willing to travel. I live convenient to public transportation.
No matter the nature or extent of our communication, coming together for fun times, dating, "getting to know one another", our sharing of minds, bodies and personhood, please know that I will treat you with the utmost respect and kindness and will expect the same from you.
I am not into the "gay scene" and pride myself on NOT being the typical gay man. What I mean by that is that I am not into someone's looks, how they wear their hair or even how they dress. Those things do not capture my heart nor do they impress me. What captures my heart? A good personality, a man who can hold a decent conversation, someone that I can introduce to my family in time and conversation wise, who can hold their own. I am very outgoing and very "witty" so someone who can take it as well as dish it out is great. I am a very romantic person, affectionate and believe 100% in monogamy. I am not looking for "the next best thing" but rather wanting ONE MAN, to get to know and build a life long bond with. I am at the point that I want to settle down. I know that a relationship takes A LOT of work and that is something that I am not afraid of. I am in it for the long haul. I am a professionally employed gay white male. Not into games, the gay scene or drama. Looking for that one person with who I can build something meaningful. I am very romantic, affectionate, honest, sincere, humorous, great personality & attractive. I love doing a wide variety of things, from hanging out with a small group of friends, theater, dinners, dancing, movies, walks, traveling; just to name a few.
What am I looking for in a partner? That is a loaded question however can easily be paraphrased. I want a man who realizes that looks fade and beauty is skin deep. I want a man who understands that there are going to be good and bad times and isn’t afraid of the bad times nor will let the bad times be an excuse to end a relationship, but rather willing to work though any problem together to get to more happier of times. I want a man who wants to laugh and have a lot of fun yet can be serious. Who isn’t a prick and has somewhat of a soft side perhaps. I want a man who will see the best in me and likewise, the best in him and be that encouragement for one another. What I am seeking is another gay male, who is who they say they are. Who is mature in their actions and convictions. Someone 18-45(ish) who is wanting some if not all of what I am talking about.
In closing, I have been single for quite some time, I don’t want anymore heartache or bullshit drama. I want to embark on life’s journeys, ups and downs with someone who is willing to go on the ride and hang on. I am very picky, not looks wise, but rather one’s character.
If you want to know more about me and I hope you do, then by all means, email me. Get to know who I am. You won't be sorry. Oh and if your first response to me is " Can I see a picture?", save it..I have several pictures and have no problem sending them out, but at least get to know who I am first.
So I know this long and very detailed, if you have made it this far, then why don't you shoot me an email?
I'm intellectually-oriented, very cosmopolitan, and I love the fine arts - including many different kinds of music, foreign/independent films, literature, theater, you name it - and getting to know other people, their cultures and languages. I am also a laid back guy who both have AND treasure a great sense of humor - wait to hear me crack up! :-). I love walking, jogging, swimming and keeping myself at the least minimally fit. I lament I don't get to go out camping and hiking as often as I'd like to (maybe you can help me with that :). And I most definitely love spending quality time with friends, going out and talking and eating with them. Overall speaking, I'm extroverted and adventurous, and the type of masculine gay guy who also happens to be very romantic. I like my dancing once in a while but clubs and bars are definitely not the first things that come to my mind when I think of going out. 'Attitude' is an English word I keep at a distance, let's say I show my attitude to it :). And gayness is a much welcomed, joyful part of my worldview, but NOT my sole worldview.
I've always been passionate about the so-called 'ultimate questions.' For years, I focused on the answers that progressive, ecumenical Christianity provide to those questions. Nowadays, however, I'm more of an agnostic. My admiration for Aquinas hasn't waned a bit but I now dedicate just as much attention to Philosophy proper and the natural sciences (I'm particularly captivated by Cosmology!). All in all, my spiritual and intellectual quest is still very much alive and unfolding. The questions have grown again, and I seek to answer them differently. I hold a BA in Theology and did some grad studies in the same area. I'm now working my way into a Ph.D. program combining religion and critical thinking. Eventually, I'd like to become a professor and researcher. For the time being, I do jobs that pay my bills, currently as a waiter, a lawyer's assistant, and a translator (English to Spanish).
I'm looking for an openly gay or bisexual man who feels at the least intrigued when he reads this profile. Ideally, he would be masculine, educated, fun and romantic, from his mid twenties to late thirties, and preferably Latin American, Caucasian/European or Middle Eastern/Arab. He'd also be somewhat cute and fit (any combination of thin, lean, athletic, swimmer, runner, muscular), HIV negative, either a top or mostly a top, a non-smoker, non-drug user and a social drinker. If he likes poetry, or is also interested in the 'ultimate questions,' all the better, but I don't want to be asking for too much :).
Just in case we get that far, I ONLY play safe, I'm HIV-neg./DD-free and impeccably clean and expect the same in all these fronts.
I'm energized by new life challenges and enjoy interacting with new people.
I love Chicago/Toronto and its sense of urban adventure just as much as I like to camp in the wilderness under a stary sky in West Michigan and Southern Ontario.
I enjoy biking on and off the beaten path, attending sports events,visiting live music venues -especially jazz and blues, and I think its fun to trudge through a mound of snow on a cold winters day.
Im no stranger to travel-- be it in a distant land or the weekend road trip and Im open to meeting new friends from a different areas of the world. In my spare time I am active in causes important to my non-gay suburban community but have also worked quietly for gay causes. As an active participant in life, I can appreicate all the more those quiet, meaningful,respectful and romantic times with someone who is masculine, unique,significant, and special. I'm searching for friends and through this process an independent,intelligent and grounded man to enhance my life through a long term relationship.
While some need another to "complete them", despite the occassional adversity of life, Im actually a complete and whole person in my own right. As a result, my life's goals and adventures continue with or without someone in it.
Our objective is to forge a friendship and eventually a monogamous relationship for all time that brings out the best in ourselves and the best in each other. No drugs please
I haven't told him that I'm looking for a woman for him. I figure I'll break the news to him once I find a normal, open-minded woman for him to talk to. He'll get a kick out of it, and he's always willing to meet new people and make new friends, even if nothing romantic evolves. What's there to lose?
What's there to gain? A great friend. And possibly more. So please respond if you're between the ages of 30-50, preferably live IN the city, are cute, normal, and stable. We can chat, you can feel free to ask me anything and everything about him, and if everything clicks, I'll set you two up on a date. No strings attached. :)
This is NOT spam, this is totally serious. I'm smitten with this man and it kills me to see him so alone. I love him enough to want to see him happy with another woman. I will not intervene or interfere in ANY way!
Available for couples who would like to introduce a little D/S into their bedroom play. Experienced or non-Experienced, reply back and we can discuss the possibilities.
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