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looking for my photo copy self - w4m (87th) 27yr

2009-12-25T23:58:38-06:00

Do you like the same things I do?

STUFF MOST PEOPLE LIKE:

Art & literature, travel (road trips or world trips), festivals, good music & conversation, learning new things, laughing with friends.

ADDITIONAL STUFF I HOPE YOU LIKE:

Talking to Strangers, Getting Lost in Strange Places Especially Far From Home, Crashing Parties, Chasing Parades Dressed Like Cats, Urban Exploration, Trespassing, Writing, Becoming Unusually Ecstatic at Festivals, Cartooning, Point & Shooting

Movies:

City of Lost Children (2795), A Clockwork Orange (2771), Pan's Labyrinth (2006), The Godfather (2772), Amelie (2001), Fight Club (2799), Full Metal Jacket (2787), Spartacus (2760), Ghost in the Shell (2795), Starwars (2777), The Princess Bride (2787). Any movie with Clint Eastwood or Bruce Lee in it.

Authors:

Gah, this is too long a list to manage. Um, well, here's a start. Joan Didion (Slouching Towards Bethlehem), Rilke, Proust, David Foster Wallace (Infinite Jest), Charles Bowden (Bone Garden of Desire), Geoff Dyer (Blues for Vincent), Jean Rhys (Goodmorning Midnight), Sandra Cisneros (The House on Mango Street), Jamaica Kincaid (Lucy), Gabriel Garcia Marquez (One Hundred Years of Solitude), John Berger (And Our Faces, My Heart, Brief as Photos).

About Me:

I'm good at details, but plot eludes me. Life is always a series of vignettes sloshing around in a god bag for me. Could I sew them all together like damaged socks? More like trying to sew together a bag of cats.

In short:

Let's be friends. Then we'll see.

PS: The photo thing. Ok, ok, we can do that. You first.

PSS: If you do not like these things, THEN PLEASE DO NOT RESPOND.

Help me make him jealous (Joliet) 37yr

2009-12-25T22:50:09-06:00

Looking for a male to help me make my boyfriend of 9 years jealous. We are very much on the rocks lately and he has started talking to another woman and I need a male friend to help me make him jealous. Not looking for a hook up just someone to talk to on phone, text and get to know on a friend level. I need someone who is open minded and who has been hurt and understands what it is to want more from the person your with. I am a beautiful blonde hair green eye woman. I need to hear I am wonderful, caring, loving, beautiful, and someone who is a gentleman. Someone who can truly be a friend and help out a woman. Serious inquiries only reply.

Thanks

Foot Rub Down (swburbs) 24yr

2009-12-25T22:25:59-06:00

what up...all done with the holidays shit...need to just chill out relax watch tv have a few beers while i give you a long foot rub down...nothing at all sexual or anything like that...hit me up i am 24 year old regular white str8 GUY....i know this is the w4m section ....i just don't mind working over another chill guys feet & looking for just a chill normal dude to hang.....used to do it for my old roommate and got good at it so just that i'd put it out here see whats up..so if your down to just relax hit me back....also totally down with 420 so if your down to smoke up while i work over your feet its most def cool by me.....

I'm looking for an ltr - how does your list compare? (Crestwood) 31yr

2009-12-25T21:45:52-06:00

About Me
SWF
5'8, voluptuous, brown curly hair
Loves pizza
Has a slight addiction to facebook right now
Has no kids - but hopes to someday
Drives a bit too fast :)
Loves to play games (cards or board games...)
Knows how to cook - but is much better at baking
Will be your best friend
Loves her job
Will make you your favorite dessert out of the blue sometimes
Loves to laugh
Would do anything for my own friends and family
Will rub your back after a hard day
Loves to go on roadtrips or long weekends
Will learn about your favorite sports team
Likes to stay home and watch tv
and likes go out to eat/drinks with friends
In the last year was on a co-ed softball team and a bowling league
Has been known to take a day off of work just to take my nephews somewhere fun!
Can't wait to meet your friends and family
Will offer to take care of you when your sick
Will help around your house sometimes just to be nice
Appreciates the little things in life
Believes that romance isn't about the money spent, but the thought you put into it

About You:
SWM - taller than me ;)
Looking for someone to spend your time with
Will send a text or email just because you're thinking about me sometimes
Likes pizza too!
Will suprise me with flowers
Has a circle of friends/family - and looks forward to bringing a cool new person around to meet them :)
Will go out of your way to make my birthday special
Wants a best friend
Willing to watch a chick flick with me (especially if I just watched a game with you)
Likes me even in sweats when we hang out at home
Has a steady job, but doesn't live and die by it
Loves to laugh
Will do the dishes especially if I cooked
Appreciates the little things I'll do for you
Wants to do little things for me
Want to send me an emaill and tell me about you

Against my better judgement... (Carol Stream)

2009-12-25T21:13:02-06:00

When how my life was supposed to go, it it wasnt like this. But as the saying goes it is what it is and I cant change the descision i made.

I'm thirty nine, currently getting a divorce, and I have a three year old daughter. I'm a bbw but im real cute, I go to the Y jus about every day and I love the museam. I am educated, I have a degree in business management and one in Accounting. I love dogs, art, and I love to travel. I like r & b music and piercings.

Tell me a about urself, reply with a picture, maybe we can catch a movie someday. I promise I'm real u b too!

PLEASE READ CAREFULLY:: I WILL NOT SLEEP WITH YOU! I WILL NOT SLEEP WITH YOU! and no you can not come to my house to "hang". If sex is your intention then do not emailing me because i will hurt ur feelings.

suit and tie type of man, educated and prof , thats my type of man (Bolingbrook) 23yr

2009-12-25T20:48:58-06:00

Straight Up:: I'm not going to be dat chick all of you guys are looking for.

I'm going to be extremely frank. I am NOT lookin for ANY kind of sexual action. No swingin, nsa, one nighters No way. You can stop readin now.

Second, drugs are a real stupid way to trash your potential. This includes squares. I dont understand y invest your cold hard cash into things temp and unhealty? I'll tell you what...next time you feel the need to light your money on fire, call me up and I will go blow it on a new purse. Deal?

lol ok. So either you're turned off or impressed by now. Please dont even waste the time to type an email to tell me im shallow or stuck up or whatever.. I'm doing both of us a favor by being up-front-games are for kids andim too old to play.. And plus, if I were to find out you did drugs, i could easily be that girl to report it. :) Have a nice day!

If you are still reading and you are one of the few who agrees with the above, cool beans!! Then our new friendship is starting right

I'm looking for friends first first, of course. Not married, no kids, no drama.

I love music: Not all i dont really like hip hop or country.. I'm more alt/rock/indie/sometimes pop. A few faves: U2, DMB, Matchbox20, The Starting Line, Jason Mraz, John Mayer, Queen, a bunch of local stuff, Red Hot Chili Peppers... you get the gist.

I am SO down with watchin movies at the crib rahter than going out to the movies. It's kind of expensive, especially if if u arent sure about the movie you're going to see. Plus, those theatre arm rest make it kinda difficult to be close! :P

I am old fashioned in many ways, but I live in the real world and I certainly aint perfect. I can make and take a joke and sometimes I even show my ankles or my elbows! lol (if u dont get it ask your granny granny...haha)

anyhoo, I'll close this up. I'm looking for friends first, like I said, but ultimately, someone caring, corny, humble, goofy, intellectual, independent and spontaneous. And if I were really picky, I'd say no piercings (too high school) and no tattoos. (Dont wanna see that girls name on your body.) Im generally not that attracted to smaller guys just because I'm little. Muscular/thick/fillintheblank is wat i want. Yea yeah, and white guys too. Just a personal preference.

Does all that sound like a laundry list? and i didnt even mention the application lol j/p!!!

Alone and looking for a Relationship (oak lawn) 42yr

2009-12-25T20:00:15-06:00

I'm 42, dwf, 5'8", BBW, and a non smoker. Looking for a white/hispanic guy, 35 and older, single/divorced, non smoker, and catless who is also tired of being alone and would like to date with the hopes that it is our last first date. I like watching sports, movies, music, dining, and good conversation. Looking for someone with similar interests. If you like watching sports that would be a big plus. Serious replies only! Please tell me about yourself with your response. No one liners! Hope to hear from you soon.

Love holding hands and kissing. - w4m (West 79th) 27yr

2009-12-25T19:52:17-06:00

Hey ol chap..well I'm not British and never say chap in normal life but for whatever reason I type it. Though aside from that, I'm pretty normal.. I feel alone right now. My girlfriends all seem to be cheerfully dating. It's great to be with a guy that always makes you feel safe and secure.

It weirds me out when guys take longer than girls to get ready but I still like a guy who dresses up because he respects himself. All I can do now is wait and see if this ad generates any results.

Your pic gets mine.

bbw sbw for swm (around the corner) 30yr

2009-12-25T18:14:52-06:00

Here we go again. I am not exactly looking but i am open to suggestions and i feel what better way to get more options so i can find him than to put myself out there for him to find me. I am a sbw full figured. guys pls if you are not into thick voluptous woman dont waste your time nor mine. As you can see i am outspoken. I have a career and i am not looking for your money i would like a LTR and that means i am not iso a fwb or a nsa relationship. I preferwhite men but i am open to other races. I am attracted to intellect and confidence. I am not interested in a big man. lol or one who is less than 5'8 in height. anyway if there is any men out there like this pls let me know because i am lonely sometimes and i am personally tired of the games out here.

I could go for a beer right about now (Minier)

2009-12-25T16:20:25-06:00

tired of emailing fakes. i cant stand it when a man act differently on the phone than in person. im trying here cuz its hard to find a man that accept a bigger woman with kids. im 36, 5'1 hazel eyes. brown hair. snd a picture to get a reply..will send a picture if you do.

im want to meet as friends first then see what happens. jumping into relationships or bed first always turns out terrible for me.

lets see what happens (Clarendon Hills) 32yr

2009-12-25T16:10:40-06:00

So earlier tonight I was emailing back and forth with a man and he said he would never date me because I was white, or at least thats what he said.

I guess what I want is a guy who doesn't care about the fact that I am white. I just want a decent man, is that too much to ask? I tend to get along better with guys. If you are interested hit me up and lets see if it can work. f

Wanted: A MAN..... (Downers Grove) 35yr

2009-12-25T15:55:29-06:00

Ok I'm not saying there is anything wrong having, but it seems like that is the only thing men in my age range want. They don't want to get to know you, they don't want to hear too much about who you are as a person. All they want is sex....the first night. If they have to take you out for drinks they will but would rather you come to their house for a glass of "cheap" wine and go at it. They say they will call you because they enjoyed being with you and would like to get to know you.........of course they won't.

Now I've had a couple act like they want to get to know me but when I advise there will be no sex on the first date..i never hear from them anymore. In all reality I might have sex on the first date...but it would be because i feel something there...a spark...some chemistry. I just won't do it for the sake of doing it.

So if you are still reading.. If you want to get to know someone, have someone to plays with, enjoy good concerts with, laugh with....and yes, even enjoy sex with let me know. I'm dont want one night stands...no friends w/benifits. I would like a long term reln but not necessarily marriage. I enjoy romance, walks on the beach, hugs, plays, concerts...and good conversation.

your pic gets mine........now lets see if i get any responses.

Lookin for someone who can treat me right (Country Side)

2009-12-25T15:46:46-06:00

Ok, I have never just come right out and put it all out on the table but I am going to try this time. lol I am not crazy! I just really want to see what kinda response i get when you put all of the info out there.

Well there is good news and bad news. i like to get bad news first so lets get that out of the way I am forty two yrs old. I wish that I was younger, but there is no looking back, The good news here is that I think and feel much younger

I am a bigger gurl. I've recently lost 20 lbs and I have about 40 more to lose (bad news). My body is not that bad, but I have semi-long hair and a beautiful face (or so I have been told).

I have had my mid-life crisis and I am trying to figure out my next moves (in terms of work). I am working, but it is not my permanent career. The good news here, I definetely dont need or wnat your money. I am straight in terms of that.

I am a very sexual person with a very high sex drive! No bad news here!

I am a nice woman in her forties that is pretty, but no where near perfect. I am a lot of fun to be around. I am smart and interested in a lot of differnt sorts of things. I have a 8 year old son that I adore. I am looking for a friendship that starts off casual and maybe grows into something more. I do like a younger man, but I am not closing myself off to anything. Let me know if you are interested!

Smaller Size BBW Looking for Some Company (South Suburbs) 45yr

2009-12-25T15:35:41-06:00

Looking for some company this weekend and maybe after. I'm not a stick but not huge....Divorced, a size 14, 185 pounds, love to laugh... let's get together for a drink and see if we click...you host. Looking for someone off the I55 or I 80 interstate.

I will send a picture only if you do.

Thanks!

More than a One Night Stand (West Ridge - Cal/Pete)

2009-12-25T15:30:16-06:00

I am a 21 years old, black (well actually biracial black and asian but everybody think im jus black) just graduated (but dont got a job yet), 130 lbs, medium black hiar, fun personality.

I am looking for a guy that like to go out, to parties, drinking basically just have a good time. I am open to most races but my preference white or hispanic (no offense) and must be below 50. I am basically looking to meet a real human being that has they life in order.

Tell me sum stuff about urself and lets see whats up. And send me a pic and I promise too send u one back

Lets go skating, you can help me if I fall (Lombard) 23yr

2009-12-25T14:57:39-06:00

Don't judge me for posting this, especially since you are reading this lol.

ok so here is what i want. I want to get to know a cool guy. Not a sicko looking jus to get in my panties. I hold myself to a higher standard than that. A guy that appreciates little things that I do. I got a million quirky habits. I try hard to keep things looking up in my life. I'm usually very content and I don't complain much. Yeah and Im a MAJOR sports fan, I love the Blackhawks, do you?

I'm 23, mixed races black and puerto rican got a average body. PAY ATTENTION: Im looking for someone NEAR my age range! Not somebody thats 58 and has 10 kids. I'm not looking for perfection just dont be a complete jerk. Really tho Im not conceited at all I play around a LOT and I'm real silly once i get comfortable wit u.

Lets chat and see whats up? Also please don't lie in your message, I will see right through it and wont respond.

Alright where are you - w4m (East Side) 27yr

2009-12-25T14:25:07-06:00

I consider myself to be easy going. I love to laugh and make other people laugh. I think that in order to get by in life you have to be able to laugh at yourself and find humor in everyday life! For me the most important aspect of a relationકhip is communication and sex. I like to be able to have us be with one another right away, so that we we can see if we're compatible.If we are not good together in bed, then what's the point right??

I would be really happy to find someone that would also be a friend! I've lived here for a few years, but never really took the time to meet any friends! I think it's so much fun to be friends with the guy I'm sleeping with! The connection is stronger, and makes the sex better!

I would like to find someone who is easy to talk to, has similar interests, can laugh with me, and will also show me a few new things in bed! If you think you could have some fun with me, then let me know!! I live in East Side!

Does anybody bowl anymore?? - w4m (Diversey Rock n'Bowl) 27yr

2009-12-25T11:13:14-06:00

Seriously, I want to go bowling so bad but can't seem to find anybody that shares this hobby of mine. Diversey Rock n'Bowl looks like it would be an absolute blast but I don't want to go alone.

You interested? I'd pay my own way, that's how bad I miss bowling. My average is 272 but by now it's probably down around 90. :(

I'm average height and weight, I smile and laugh a lot, and would hope you do too.

Hope to hear from you!

A little shy, but worth your time! - w4m (Ford City Mall! =) ) 27yr

2009-12-25T08:04:15-06:00

Hey, like I said, I'm a little bit shy. But just at first. I open up really quickly, I just have to feel comfortable first! I consider myself a really good person, with good morals and values! I have lot's of goals for my life. All that being said, I'm not a pride either. But I'm may not sleep with you on the first, or second, or third date. That actually depends on you. If it feels really, really right, maybe on the first date....maybe..otherwise....??? stay tuned! =)

My idea of a perfect first date, would definately be to like, go on a boat ride, at night. then, go to a restaurant near the water, and, drink wine, talk, laugh, whatever! let me know if this sounds like fun to you, and maybe we can make it happen! I work in Ford City Mall....maybe we can meet there, in the food court or something...=)

Epic win! - w4m (sw burbs) 28yr

2009-12-24T23:48:45-06:00

Well for staters im 28 so thats a good thing haha all hip and trendy.Hmm dont really know why im posting but i wanna give every possible revenue a try.im really NOT looking for nsa fun or anything that falls in that category.I think im fun and i can make ppl laugh sometimes at my own expense lol.I have a pretty good job and going full time to school and family and friends so i have a pretty full life.Im not in need of a knight in shining armor. bleh.i just want a funny, smart guy that can keep up a conversation and not ask for a pic of my .Stats: 5'79avg height lol), 123lbs, redhair, blue eyes, slim, and crazy fun :D

looking 2 chill - w4m ( southside 2 downers) 23yr

2009-12-24T21:36:45-06:00

Hey. Looking 2 meet someone, hangout and see where things go from there., no kids, gainfully employed and looking 2 meet the same. This is not a booty call ad. Looking to gain a friend, not a std. I'm a tall gal, 5'23 and looking for someone also tall, or at least confident in themselves where they won't huff and puff if I put on a pair of heels. HWP, wear a medium in shirts, and a 12 in pants. I'm laidback, can be shy within the 1st 5mins of meeting, but after that you'll find me to be outgoing, sarcastic, and a fun girl. I have pics which I'll be happy to share when I get one of you as well, and no I don't want any pics. All races welcome.

Alright where are you - w4m (East Side) 25yr

2009-12-24T20:54:46-06:00

I consider myself to be easy going. I love to laugh and make other people laugh. I think that in order to get by in life you have to be able to laugh at yourself and find humor in everyday life! For me the most important aspect of a relation্hip is communication and sex. I like to be able to have us be with one another right away, so that we we can see if we're compatible.If we are not good together in bed, then what's the point right??

I would be really happy to find someone that would also be a friend! I've lived here for a few years, but never really took the time to meet any friends! I think it's so much fun to be friends with the guy I'm sleeping with! The connection is stronger, and makes the sex better!

I would like to find someone who is easy to talk to, has similar interests, can laugh with me, and will also show me a few new things in bed! If you think you could have some fun with me, then let me know!! I live in East Side!

Sadly no Christmas spirit here... 20yr

2009-12-24T20:53:29-06:00

Bored on Christmas eve. Someone help. Entertain me for a bit. Maybe if someone cheers me up I'll get in the mood for christmas tommorow.

Bad girl looking for fun - w4m (Quencher Smoothies) 26yr

2009-12-24T20:46:16-06:00

Who wants to meet up with me near Quencher Smoothies and grab some wine with me elsewhere. I don't want to spend the night out, because it's always sexy time in my dark apartment--never really sexy time out there. We can do whatever you want, with very few limits. Make me feel good while being very, very bad with me.

Make sure you're well fed, you're going to need to energy.

Does anybody bowl anymore?? - w4m (Diversey Rock n'Bowl) 24yr

2009-12-24T20:43:15-06:00

Seriously, I want to go bowling so bad but can't seem to find anybody that shares this hobby of mine. Diversey Rock n'Bowl looks like it would be an absolute blast but I don't want to go alone.

You interested? I'd pay my own way, that's how bad I miss bowling. My average is 242 but by now it's probably down around 90. :(

I'm average height and weight, I smile and laugh a lot, and would hope you do too.

Hope to hear from you!

Can you handle me - w4m (Pulaski) 26yr

2009-12-24T13:16:04-06:00

Is it that hard to find that one guy who would like to date a great girl and not for just a late night rendezvous?? I want a guy who is honest, outgoing, TALL, loves going to concerts, football/basketball games, family oriented, and be hilarious! I love hanging with friends downtown every now and again or out bbq'ing with friends.

Gotta care about how you look and be cute & attractive. Did I mention you have to be funny?? I love having great convos's over dinner with someone and not having to wonder what I am going to say next so no shy guys please :P So when you reply, put in the subject line ATX so I can weed out the spam and tell me about yourself and what your wanting. Your pic gets mine. At least be between 26-39 So let's see what happens! =)

Like curves? (Hinsdale) 28yr

2009-12-24T10:52:26-06:00

hey folks, i am looking for that hard to find gentleman that also desires a drama less partnership, about me: i am 28, 5'3, funny, and just love to spend time with a special person. i would love to catch a throw back film, grab drinks or go out to a nice dinner.

If you want to kno more reply with a picture por favor

oh btw i'm from south america so dont play games if your not into to latin females. Your nationality isnt important to me but your world view is!

worth your time! - w4m (Ford City Mall) 22yr

2009-12-24T01:19:14-06:00

open up really quickly, I just have to feel comfortable first! I consider myself a really good person, with good morals and values! I have lot's of goals for my life. All that being said, I'm t a pride either. But I'm may t sleep with you on the first, or second, or third date. That actually depends on you. If it feels really, really right, maybe on the first date....maybe..otherwise....??? stay tuned! =)

Tall and built like a linebacker, but not huge?? (Orland Park) 24yr

2009-12-23T20:23:35-06:00

So Im really looking for an LTR but I need a date for NYE and would like to see what develops.... I want someone who is tall atleast 6ft and built like a linebacker but not huge (you should be HWP, a LITTLE extra to love is ok too)...I would appreciate if you are about 30 minutes from Orland Park... Please be white (no exceptions, sorry!!), someone who is older is preferred but not required.... Pic for Pic and if you have AIM thats even better we can chat tonight.... I would like to hurry this process along because after all NYE is only one week away, obviously we will meet atleast once before that to see if things mesh... Im a great kisser and I would hope that you would be too if not we can work on it :) after all practice makes perfect... Hope to hear from you soon...

P.S. Please put your location in the subject or I will delete your post.... Thank you!!!

Looking for new experiences - w4m (Ford City) 25yr

2009-12-23T18:40:13-06:00

Im lonely not desperate (south of 80) 30yr

2009-12-23T18:04:47-06:00

I know one shouldnt hate the holidays but im so tired of spending them alone and I do mean alone. Im tired of being around my family and listening to them bitch and complain and im tired of the guys who think im nothing more than a one night stand.

Ill be honest with you Im not a super model im me inside and out. Im a good person a single mother of two kids(although they are with their dad for christmas). I wish I could have another but yet Its not even a possibility and to most people that seems to be a deal breaker. Most people my age are getting married and starting families Me on the other hand im divorced and have kids. Im not looking for someone to be their dad Im looking for someone to be with me and spend time with us. I want someone I can wake up next to in the morning. I promise im not a physco but im not saying I cant be a bitch ( I am a woman). I have a good sense of humor I love to laugh and cuddle and joke around. I love to smile and just have a good time and I dont consider myself high maintence. Id rather stay home watch a movie cook dinner just be with someone. dont get me wrong I love to go out and go to the zoo or museums even navy pier and walk around. I love to fish and camp and swim. I can really have fun doing just aout anythin just depends on the company I have with me.

I dont want the replies to be all about just thinking she is lonley and she will jump in bed with me. Please dont get me wrong I think the intamacy part is very important but I dont want to be your door mat i dont need to be used I do have feelings. All in all at the end of the day I want to know how your day went and for you to be my shoulder if i need it. I want someone who knows im not perfect and dont pretend to be. I am imperfection at its finest.

If your still reading this well thank you lol. I do have pics and will trade pic for pic. Is it so wrong not to want to be alone to be wanted for who you are not what you can give someone. I have found out along time ago you can give me the world but all i want is your respect and your heart. Also please no one with orders of protection, felonies, warrents, over due child support, murder convictions, theft, battery, lol well some might be able to be comprimised if your innocent till proven guilty lol

Good luck with your search and merry christmas

looking for someone with a kind heart - w4m (Kilbourn) 23yr

2009-12-23T17:55:13-06:00

I never thought that someday, I was going to post in this section of CL. But, the way I think changed, when I started to felt extremely alone. At this moment I'm scared, because I realized this loneliness is taking me out of reality and making me antisocial (antisocial= i feeling uncomfortable when people surround me). Yes, I don't have any friends, because I'm new to Chicago (6 months) and shy to make new ones. So I will try this way and see what happens.

First, what I want, that way you don't have to read all and at the very end notice that you aren't what I'm looking for. I'm not picky so, don't be afraid. You have to be open to express what you feel with out fear, communication is all for me, and of course I will do the same (I had Bfs that used to do this, so don't tell me that is to much or impossible). This physical characteristics are just pluses, I'm more interested in you as a person.

I'm a laid back kind of girl who prefer stay at home or walk around instead to go to a concert. That have a reason, I don't like crowded places because they made me feel claustrophobic. I like to camp especially at night in the beach, i like any single thing that is related or involve water.

If you want to know something more, just ask me and I will be please to answer. You want my face, first yours, not pics, not replay, it is that simple.

DWF looking 4 Normal White Guy 4 LTR (oak lawn) 42yr

2009-12-23T15:39:33-06:00

I'm 42, dwf, 5'8", heavyset and curvy BBW, and a non smoker. I'm looking for a normal white guy, 35 and older, single/divorced, non smoker, and catless who would like to date with the hopes that it turns into a long term relationship. I like watching sports, movies, music, dining, and good conversation. If you are a sports fan that would be a big plus. Looking for someone with similar interests. Serious replies only! Please tell me about yourself with your response. Hope to hear from you soon.

Cute and smart BBW looking for a good guy (Orland Park, IL) 24yr

2009-12-23T14:45:06-06:00

Thank you for reading my ad. I am a 24 year old BBW who is attractive, educated, and intelligent. I am looking for a LTR and my ideal mate would be between the ages of 24-35, white or hispanic, above 5'9", thin to husky build, and very reliable. I am not into playing games, hook ups, or NSA relationships so please do not respond unless you are serious about the possibility of a relationship. Please include pic when responding and I will send mine back.

Finally free after years of misery! - w4m (Oak Lawn) 22yr

2009-12-23T13:01:37-06:00

Sensual girl here in need of a real man. I'm up for just about anything like massaging or even role play. I love flaunting my body to the right guy. I want a man that is rugged and good looking. I am very feminine, I love to wear heels, jewelry and make-up, but I consider myself a guy's girl because I also enjoy sports.

If I sound the the chica for you, then let me know! not looking for a serious thing though, just looking for some fun. Want me to host? ok, I live in Oak Lawn, and don't mind driving, if you want to host!

Lovin' Life! (River North) 23yr

2009-12-23T11:21:16-06:00

First Off:: I'm not going to be that girl all of you guys are looking for.

I'm going to be extremely frank. I am NOT lookin for ANY kind of sexual action. No nsa, one night dudes and the like No way. Move on to the next one.

Second, drugs are a real stupid way to trash your potential. This includes cigs. I dont understand why invest your cold hard cash into sumthin temp and unhealty? I'll tell you what...next time you feel the need to light your money on fire, hit me up and i can go bloe it for u on some new jewelry. Deal?

lol iight. So either you're turned off or impressed by now. Please dont even waste the time to type an email to tell me im shallow or stuck up or whatever.. I'm doing both of us a favor by being up-front-games are for kids andim too old to play.. And plus, if I were to find out you did drugs, I would prolly be that girl to report it. :) Have a nice day!

If you are still reading and you are one of the few who agrees with the above, cool beans!! Then our new friendship is starting right

I'm looking for friends first first, of course. Not married, no kids, no drama.

I love music: Not all i dont really like hip hop or country.. I'm more alt/rock/indie/sometimes pop. A few faves: U2, DMB, Matchbox20, The Starting Line, Jason Mraz, John Mayer, Queen, a bunch of local stuff, Red Hot Chili Peppers... you get the gist.

I am SO down with watchin movies at the crib rahter than going out to the movies. It's kind of expensive, especially if you dont know if u will like the movie you're going to see. Plus, those theatre chairs make it kinda difficult to be close! :P

I am old fashioned in a lot of ways, but I live in the real world and I certainly aint perfect. I can make and take a joke and sometimes I even show my ankles or my elbows! lol (if u dont get it ask your granny granny...haha)

Anyhoo, I'll close this up. I'm looking for friends first, like I said, but ultimately, someone caring, corny, humble, goofy, intellectual, independent and spontaneous. And if I could be picky, I'd say no piercings (too high school) and no tattoos. (Dont wanna know what you were thinking when you got it.) Im not really attracted to smaller guys just because I'm little. Muscular/thick/fillintheblank is wat i want. Oooo yeah, and white guys too. Just a personal preference.

Does all that sound like a laundry list? lol i forgot to mention the application process (just kidding)!!!

Epic win! - w4m (sw burbs) 25yr

2009-12-23T09:34:13-06:00

Well for staters im 25 so thats a good thing haha all hip and trendy.Hmm dont really know why im posting but i wanna give every possible revenue a try.im really NOT looking for nsa fun or anything that falls in that category.I think im fun and i can make ppl laugh sometimes at my own expense lol.I have a pretty good job and going full time to school and family and friends so i have a pretty full life.Im not in need of a knight in shining armor. bleh.i just want a funny, smart guy that can keep up a conversation and not ask for a pic of my .Stats: 5'79avg height lol), 123lbs, redhair, blue eyes, slim, and crazy fun :D

Imagination must be used - w4m (chicago heights) 25yr

2009-12-23T08:48:47-06:00

i'm looking for someone that is not afraid to try new things! i like to do anything and everything that is fun and new! i'm going through a break up right now, so i can't host..we still live together, but just for like another week or so. so of course i'm not looking for anything serious. i'm just looking for someone that can hook up with me! he keeps thinking that he is going to get some break up sex...he's so not though..someone here is going to get his break up sex! =)

anyways, i'm in chicago heights, just let me know when you want to hook up!

Looking to chat (Southside) 21yr

2009-12-23T08:14:53-06:00

Hello! I am just looking for someone to chat with. I am only looking for friendship at this point, but maybe could lead to more. I am a very motivated person. I work part time and go to college full time. I will have my Bachelors in Marketing in May and cannot wait to start my career! I enjoy going out, being with friends, shopping, and much more! I am very outgoing and love to meet new people. Email me if your interested!

Animal Lover Looking For Sweetheart - w4m (W 127th St) 26yr

2009-12-23T03:01:01-06:00

I should note right off the bat that I am an animal lover and have 2 dogs and 3 cats that live with me in my townhouse. It's already kind of cramped so you should be okay with pets being around all the time. I enjoy cooking, and cleaning (oddly enough it calms me down and helps me focus). I am an independent woman who works at an animal shelter.

What do I look for in a guy? Well you should like animals (duh) and be a genuine sweetheart. That doesnt mean you have to be soft all the time, I still like a man who can take control - but I am looking for a guy who can turn off the toughness every once in awhile and just come and cuddle with me!

MEN 24-35 (south burbs) 23yr

2009-12-22T23:14:33-06:00

I am a real person, with a car of my own and my own place, I have a REAL job that I pay my rent and bills with. I am looking for someone who also has those things, preferably 24-35, a bigger guy who is sarcastic and doesnt mind a girl who will speak up and be opinionated
I'm a bigger girl, who takes care of herself
I love to travel
I love hockey
I love fishing
I like all different kinds of music
I am very 420 friendly
I am open to trying new things always
I am not looking for a one night stand, hookup, F--- buddy
I am looking for friends who could have potential to be more, possible LTR
pic for pic

Needing a playmate - w4m (Daily College) 27yr

2009-12-22T23:07:10-06:00

I have given up looking for love as I am having too much good fun. I am looking to hook up with people who want to have fun. I want to experience some of my secret fantasies and make them come true. I want to meet if your idea of fun and my idea of fun are a match I want to meet up for real I just gotta find the right guy and the right place so is that you?

I love to make new friends - w4m (peoria) 26yr

2009-12-22T23:00:43-06:00

Hey, i'm a very happy and positive person and love to meet new people! especially guys! i'm addicated to sex! i love to do it anywhere, anytime, and well, not anyone, just place or time! =) what can i say, i'm all the time! right now i'm as hell right now! the only thing is i really don't want to start anything serious. i'm not ready for that right now, and enjoy being single way too much! so, just keep that in mind if we meet!

so hit me up if you want to meet, i'm free tonight, and would love to make things happen now! i live in peoria, so when can you come over! =)

Woman looking to fulfill sexual fantasies - w4m (State) 22yr

2009-12-22T22:22:50-06:00

Female,22.. looking for tall dark and handsome ( ok lets face it short blonde and ok-ish will do ) lol , i am looking for someone who can have some fun not just after sex!!!

Sex is part of the deal though and I am looking for non comitted fun , but hey we should be able to see a movie , and have a drink and a laugh too. I am a very home lovin girl youll not catch anything nasty from me because i dont make a habit of doing this sort of thing but at the same time I have no hang-ups about it and I am infact quite looking forward to meeting someone new on a casual basis.

Please hit me back with some info on yourself and a pic , I will send mine in return.

sharp wit and intelligence.. (Coal Valley) 37yr

2009-12-22T21:14:51-06:00

So I'll just say for starters

I wish I didnt have to post this ad. I had hopes of finding you in a typical place like the book store or a park but I am sick and tired of wishing and attempting to play my self lol. so anywho I really hope to find an individual who doesn't look over here all the time. Really just a gentleman who is waiting to meet some one really supportive and just decided to look here....

So I am funny, easy to hang with and very independant. I am 5'6" a bit over weight but i am still attractive

blackish hair and greenish eyes. I am the most dependable friend you'll ever have. I am a awesome listener, independant, with a tiny bit of playful sarcasm. I am a major music lover and love 60's music and lite rock from today. I also love watching movies or plays anything from comedys to chick flicks. Don't leave yet lol..I've got lots of girlfriends to come with me to the chick flicks lol. What else can i say? I am generally the person who is attempting to ensure that everyone around me is having a fun time. I really live for making other people laugh. I've been working a ton on myself this last couple months and now I am much happier.

So what do I want? So I thought up a really long list ... only joking lol! So actually I wanna meet a a gentleman, thats thats respectful, dependable, reliable, and a man that has a job must be would be huge. Also he has to be understanding of my happier way of living and demand me to continue and to do fun stuff. If you like basketball or baseball that would be a major plus too.

almost forgot I only recently moved back to Coal Valley after a year of living in Colorado would be nice for you to show me whats fun here!

what is it you stand for (Washington Park) 35yr

2009-12-22T21:06:32-06:00

Ok I'm not saying there is anything wrong having, but it seems like that is the only thing men in my age range want. They don't want to get to know you, they don't want to hear too much about your life. All they want is sex....the first night. If they have to take you out for drinks they will but would rather you come to their house for a glass of "cheap" wine and go at it. They say they will call you because they enjoyed being with you and would like to get to know you.........of course they won't.

Now I've had a couple act like they want to get to know me but when I advise there will be no sex on the first date..i never hear from them anymore. The truth is I might have sex on the first date...but it would be because i feel something there...a spark...some chemistry. I just won't do it for the sake of doing it.

So if you are still reading.. If you want to get to know someone, have someone to plays with, enjoy good concerts with, laugh with....and yes, even enjoy sex with let me know. I'm dont want one night stands...no FWBs. I would like a long term reln but not necessarily marriage. I enjoy romance, walking ont he lake, hugs, museams, concerts...and good conversation.

your pic gets mine........now lets see if i get any responses.

Alright where are you - w4m (East Side) 27yr

2009-12-22T20:43:35-06:00

Just want to be friends for now.... (Kankakee County) 27yr

2009-12-22T20:34:57-06:00

Ok heres a bit about me:

27,Single, Caucausion, Thick, Brown, Hair, Blue eyes, Glasses, 5'5"and a Mom of 3 wonderful children. Want to know more just ask.

Heres what I am looking for:

SINGLE MALE
27-36
Prefer Caucausion
Height just have to be taller then me
Prefer dark haired men with blue or green eyes
Must like kids
You must be able to except that I have children and cannot have anymore
Picture is attached so I would expect the same from you

Geeky girl, talk nerdy to me! - w4m (GO BULLS!!) 23yr

2009-12-22T17:49:30-06:00

Heyyy! Energetic 23 yr old beauty queen with a for life , punk and rock music , clothes and B Movies and sci-fi seeking geeky guy for explorative afternoons under the covers to talk about star trek ( joke!!!!!! )

Piercings and tats a bonus but not nessesary I am more interested in that mind and what goes on it , share your secrets with me , i consider myself unshockable but youre welcome to try and i might let you into a few of mine. Till then x

extremely single! (Lansing)

2009-12-22T16:33:32-06:00

When think about how i planned my life to go, it this wasnt it. But as the saying goes it is what it is and I cant look back.

I'm thirty nine, currently getting a divorce, and I have a 5 year old daughter. I'm a bbw but i carry it well, I go to the Y jus about every day and I love old movies. I am educated, I have a degree in business management and one in Accounting. I love dogs, art, and I love to travel. I like r & b music and tats.

Tell me a about urself, reply with a picture, maybe we can go for a walk someday. I promise I'm real u b too!

PAY ATTENTION:: I WILL NOT SLEEP WITH YOU! I WILL NOT SLEEP WITH YOU! and no you can not come to my house to "hang". If sex is your intention then do not emailing me because i will hurt ur feelings.

Can't please everyone but each other - w4m (Sarpino's Pizzeria) 28yr

2009-12-22T15:57:42-06:00

I'm very sociable and spend a lot of time with friends, having a bite to eat at Sarpino's Pizzeria and drinks. I am very approachable, pro-active, ethical, very good with people, patient, kind, good at listening, organized, studious, considerate, willing to help people, willing to try new things and I am looking for someone who likes to do similar things to me.

Looking for safe fun - w4m (Daily College) 28yr

2009-12-22T14:19:02-06:00

I am looking for dating, friendship and whatever leads down that road. I am generally a happy person. I enjoy football (College, Pro and High School too), camping, fishing and the beach! I am very outgoing, I will try anything once. I am looking for a man who enjoys the same activities as I do. I have played WOW before and enjoyed it very much. I am open to new things in life, very open. I am not into one night stands or FWB, or anything of that nature. I am a real person, I am looking for a real person. Please be close to my age or older!!!!!!!! So, if you are replying to my ad just keep that in mind, I do like to head to the beach for fishing and fun with out the worries of any small children.

Please be unattached (not married). I am always open to new friendships so, if it doesn't workout then we can try that angle....Good luck in your search and happy life to you....Thanks....Please reply with Life in your subject line... thanks...

looking for that special someone - w4m (Springfield) 22yr

2009-12-22T13:16:17-06:00

I don't know if it is possible to sum myself up in a box of a small personal ad but I will give it ago ..where to start? It might be easier to say what I am absolutely NOT looking for DRAMA !!!

Im cute and I am genuinely seeking someone who is free minded to date and enjoy ourselves. Send me an email if you're interested.

Can you meet me in South Shore? Let me know k ?

looking for someone with a kind heart - w4m (Ford City) 24yr

2009-12-22T13:12:45-06:00

I can only imagine . . . (Lansing) 23yr

2009-12-22T12:04:04-06:00

Straight Up:: I'm not going to be that chicken head girl all of you guys are looking for.

I'm going to be extremely frank. I am NOT lookin for ANY kind of sexual action. No one nighters, nsa whateva. No way. Move on to the next one.

Second, drugs are a really dumb way to throw away your potential. This includes squares. I dont understand why invest your cold hard cash into sumthin temp and unhealty? I'll tell you what...next time you feel the need to light your money on fire, just call me and i will happily blow it for you on some new jewelry. Deal?

lol ok. So either you're turned off or impressed by now. Dont even take the time to tell me im shallow or conceited. I'm doing both of us a favor by being up-front-games are for kids andim too old to play.. And plus, if I were to find out you did drugs, I would prolly be that chicken head girl to report it. :) Have a nice day!

If it turns out you are one of the few who agrees with the above, cool beans!! Then our new friendship is starting right

I'm looking for friends first first, of course. Not married, no kids, no drama.

I love music: Well i guess not all music I am not a big fan of rap or heavy metel.. I'm more alt/rock/indie/sometimes pop. A few faves: U2, DMB, Matchbox20, The Starting Line, Jason Mraz, John Mayer, Queen, a bunch of local stuff, Red Hot Chili Peppers... you get the gist.

I am SO down with watchin movies at the crib rahter than going out to the movies. It's kinda expensive, especially if you dont know if u will like the movie you're going to watch. Plus, those theatre chairs make it kinda difficult to be close! :P

I am old fashioned in many ways, but I live in the real world and I certainly aint perfect. I can make and take a joke and sometimes I even show my ankles or my elbows! lol (if u dont get it ask your granny granny...haha)

anyhoo, I'll close this up. I'm looking for friends first, like I said, but ultimately, someone caring, corny, humble, goofy, intellectual, independent and spontaneous. And if I were really picky, I'd say no piercings (too high school) and no tattoos. (Dont wanna know what you were thinking when you got it.) Im generally not that attracted to smaller guys just because I'm thoughtful. Muscular/chubby/fillintheblank i like. Yea yeah, and white guys too. Just a personal preference.

Does all that sound like a laundry list? and i didnt even mention the application lol j/p!!!

Where U Black Men at Ova 30? (Lincoln Park) 28yr

2009-12-22T11:58:56-06:00

DANG where is the ova 30 dudes at?

Dont nobody still like to hold hands and kiss after a homemade meal??? What happened to to fish and greens dinners WITH dinner rolls, corn and potato salad,mashed potatoes and peach cobler!!! dang dang guess i'm just old fashioned huh?

im 28, mixed but more black than anything else, fit (like 130 lbs), kinda short, sarcastic and cute. i'm looking for a decent guy---caring TRUELY hardworking intelligent, likes the outdoors and romantic drives MUST know Jesus Please EXCEPTIONS----independant and funny! yeah i like that too!

Please Fools I have a lot to offer i want the same HAVE SOMETHING dang, a crib? work? a brain? career? HELLO.............will send pics after u plez

Looking for new experiences - w4m (84th) 25yr

2009-12-22T11:52:20-06:00

Hola chicos! I would like to find someone that is interested in a ltr. I'm a 25 year old gal that is sweet, caring, witty, loves to laugh, easy going, laid back, loving, faithful, loyal and family oriented. I am looking for a guy with the same traits. I enjoy volunteering with kids and anything for a good cause. I have a big heart and I usually get walked all over. I dont judge people. Who am I to judge? I'm not perfect.

I have a big family so we are always getting together for bbqs, playing cards, board games and having a few beers. I am an outgoing person. I like to bowl, putt putt golf, air hockey, going out to dinner, movies....whatever gets me out of the house. lol. I'm gonna keep this short, if interested at all, please don't hesitate to msg me. Hope to hear from u soon! :)

Need a Friend (Stone Park)

2009-12-22T11:16:04-06:00

tired of emailing fakes. i cant stand it when a man act differently on the phone than in person. im trying here cuz its hard to find a man that accept a big girl with kids. im 36, 5'1 hazel eyes. brown hair. snd a picture to get a reply..will send a picture if you do.

im want to meet as friends first then see what happens. jumping into relationships or bed first always turns out terrible for me.

Good times lie ahead for 2010 35yr

2009-12-22T08:35:26-06:00

I am independent, outgoing and beautiful and have no baggage like some women my age. Looking to meet Single Guys who are open to dating and a little romance No longer will I settle for second best; I am a strong person and need someone who can love me and live life on equal terms with me. I want to start off slow and take it one step at a time. Whatever happens, happens!! I will ONLY reply if you send me photos, your age, height, marital status and location Also, have you ever been married, any kids and do you smoke or do recreational drugs?
More details will follow once I hear from you and see photos.
I am a 35 SWF and I live in the city.

Finally free after years of misery! - w4m (Oak Lawn) 26yr

2009-12-22T06:57:42-06:00

Woman looking to fulfill sexual fantasies - w4m (Pulaski) 28yr

2009-12-22T06:46:00-06:00

Female,28.. looking for tall dark and handsome ( ok lets face it short blonde and ok-ish will do ) lol , i am looking for someone who can have some fun not just after sex!!!

Sex is part of the deal though and I am looking for non comitted fun , but hey we should be able to see a movie , and have a drink and a laugh too. I am a very home lovin girl youll not catch anything nasty from me because i dont make a habit of doing this sort of thing but at the same time I have no hang-ups about it and I am infact quite looking forward to meeting someone new on a casual basis.

Please hit me back with some info on yourself and a pic , I will send mine in return.

Alright where are you - w4m (East Side) 25yr

2009-12-22T06:40:33-06:00

I consider myself to be easy going. I love to laugh and make other people laugh. I think that in order to get by in life you have to be able to laugh at yourself and find humor in everyday life! For me the most important aspect of a relation্hip is communication and sex. I like to be able to have us be with one another right away, so that we we can see if we're compatible.If we are not good together in bed, then what's the point right??

I would be really happy to find someone that would also be a friend! I've lived here for a few years, but never really took the time to meet any friends! I think it's so much fun to be friends with the guy I'm sleeping with! The connection is stronger, and makes the sex better!

I would like to find someone who is easy to talk to, has similar interests, can laugh with me, and will also show me a few new things in bed! If you think you could have some fun with me, then let me know!! I live in East Side!

A Partner for the Holidays LTR (Plainfield) 46yr

2009-12-22T05:02:18-06:00

Hi! Looking for a long term relationship with a good guy! I'm 46, divorced, 5'6", blonde hair, blue eyes and a great smile! I'm a size 14 so liking curves is important! I have a great career, college educated and love what I do. Personality- nice, grounded, putgoing (can talk to anyone) honest to a fault, laugh and smile easily. I am not into drama, arguements, negative people or emotional issues. Life is what you make it! I own my own home and am not looking for someone to take care of...or one to take care of me. Relationships are a two way street. I'm looking for a man....38-50, not married who is happy in his own life just missing that great woman to share it with! I am most attracted to men who are over 6 foot...sorry. :) I love the outdoors, camping, hiking, dog parks ( I have a large dog), exploring new areas and towns, flea markets, all types of music but country, alternative and rock win out, outdoor fests, farmers markets, socializing, BBQ's and hanging out with family and friends. Being family centered is a must! My sons are important...so if you have kids that is great! I am not looking for someone who's kids are grown and that cannot understand that mine are not.

I will send a picture if one is received with an email...one sentence replies or a few words will not get a response... I figure if you can't send an email...then not a lot would be put into a relationship or communication. Just being honest as I see those emails as a waste of time. Thanks for reading ! Have a great day!

looking for my photo copy self - w4m (87th) 25yr

2009-12-22T03:11:06-06:00

Do you like the same things I do?

STUFF MOST PEOPLE LIKE:

Art & literature, travel (road trips or world trips), festivals, good music & conversation, learning new things, laughing with friends.

ADDITIONAL STUFF I HOPE YOU LIKE:

Talking to Strangers, Getting Lost in Strange Places Especially Far From Home, Crashing Parties, Chasing Parades Dressed Like Cats, Urban Exploration, Trespassing, Writing, Becoming Unusually Ecstatic at Festivals, Cartooning, Point & Shooting

Movies:

City of Lost Children (2595), A Clockwork Orange (2571), Pan's Labyrinth (2006), The Godfather (2572), Amelie (2001), Fight Club (2599), Full Metal Jacket (2587), Spartacus (2560), Ghost in the Shell (2595), Starwars (2577), The Princess Bride (2587). Any movie with Clint Eastwood or Bruce Lee in it.

Authors:

Gah, this is too long a list to manage. Um, well, here's a start. Joan Didion (Slouching Towards Bethlehem), Rilke, Proust, David Foster Wallace (Infinite Jest), Charles Bowden (Bone Garden of Desire), Geoff Dyer (Blues for Vincent), Jean Rhys (Goodmorning Midnight), Sandra Cisneros (The House on Mango Street), Jamaica Kincaid (Lucy), Gabriel Garcia Marquez (One Hundred Years of Solitude), John Berger (And Our Faces, My Heart, Brief as Photos).

About Me:

I'm good at details, but plot eludes me. Life is always a series of vignettes sloshing around in a god bag for me. Could I sew them all together like damaged socks? More like trying to sew together a bag of cats.

In short:

Let's be friends. Then we'll see.

PS: The photo thing. Ok, ok, we can do that. You first.

PSS: If you do not like these things, THEN PLEASE DO NOT RESPOND.

Geeky girl, talk nerdy to me! - w4m (GO BULLS!!) 23yr

2009-12-22T03:10:48-06:00

Love holding hands and kissing. - w4m (State) 24yr

2009-12-22T02:34:01-06:00

Sexy Woman Seeks NSA - w4m (Wal-Mart) 27yr

2009-12-22T01:28:32-06:00

I enjoy everything from watching movies, going to the clubs occasionally, cooking new dishes. Let�s start off at a mutual location like Wal-Mart. From there we would probably go to get something to eat so that we could just get a little time to talk and find out the basics. Maybe after eating we can go to wherever you would like to go to keep the night going good.

Cocoa BBW Looking for Legion(the movie) date (Homewood) 32yr

2009-12-21T23:34:41-06:00

I'm what you would call a foreward thinker - a planner. I love action, adventure, fantasy, and some sci-fi movies. I'm stoked about Legion. Its right up my alley but a little too dark and possibly scary for me. This time around instead of holding my breath, looking down, and slowly exhaling through my nose, I think I'll just turn my head into your shoulder or grab your arm for dear life then play if off a few seconds later.
I posting this ad now because I dont do movies as a first date. It's too intimate an environment (I dont know if I'll like you enough to sit next to you in a dark place. And more importantly I wont know if your the type to talk in the movie which is sooooooooooo annoying and rude). So I'm posting the ad now in hopes of meeting a nice man that I can communicate with and who knows by the time Legion comes out it may be our...gasp THIRD date. (Again pre-planning for Legion).
Other stats you might want to know about me
Single
No kids
5'8"
No pets
self employed
likes to be chased (yeah I know the internet changes things alittle bit)
interested in meeting new people
Dont go to church weekly, but I do go (except for CME...too many people)
believes phones are for talking not texting

You
Single
30-43
taller than me
wants to meet not just chat. Read a couple of emails, PHONE conversations, and meet.
Take charge assertive decision maker (I add this because I read alot of ads for BBWs looking for a submissive guy. That is almost the OPPOSITE of what I'm looking for)

Please reply with a picture. Replies that are more engaged than a standard "I'm interested" response will be responded to first.

HAPPY HOLIDAYS EVERYONE!
Be Safe, Be Happy, and Be Full (of love and food)

looking for someone with a kind heart - w4m (Daily College) 24yr

2009-12-21T22:52:03-06:00

Looking to meet someone real - w4m (Ford city Mall) 24yr

2009-12-21T22:33:45-06:00

I would best describe myself. I am a down-to-earth person who takes pride in my health and happiness, and I cherish life as much as possible. I am a loyal and caring person, who loves to volunteer and help people when they need istance or when things just aren't going right for them. I enjoy working, whether it be a career job or working around the house, in order to keep myself busy and physically active. i really would like to find a man the same way as me. If thats you then I would totally love to hear from you and see if we can meet up to see how things go!

Wanna have some fun - w4m (Tropic Island Jerk Chicken) 27yr

2009-12-21T22:28:01-06:00

I've been craving some chicken, amongst other things. *winks* I'd love to find a fine black man to go to Tropic Island Chicken, then head to my apartment. It's been a while since I've had some fun and I really, really love strong black men. I'm a white chick. Let's just go get something good to eat (jerk chicken reminds me of my grandmother, she used to make it) and have some adult fun!

A.

what does the future hold for you (oak forest) 37yr

2009-12-21T21:33:08-06:00

I am sitting here thinking about the past and what the future will hold.

Do men think about such things?

I am broken again. I said and did all the wrong things. I have cried. Part of me feels loss, part anger, part hurt - but really at myself. What is it about me?

I know you do not want to hear it. As a typical woman, I want to tell it. But when I think about it, I know my strengths and weaknesses.

So I am taking check of myself. I have decided that change may be in order.

Going to church now. Going to volunteer. Find a new job.

So here I am just writing with stream of consciousness to see if there is one man out there that might be interested in dating.

Dating in a way that I have never dated before. The right way.

No more sleeping together on the first day. No more acronyms.

Going out and having fun. Getting to know each other. Seeing what the other person is about. Knowing sometimes people need to get beyond the initial first impression. Spend some time together.

Dating for me means a man in his 30s/up to 42. Dating means he lives closer than driving forty some miles. I really prefer guys with hair. I prefer someone on the south side. I don't want to see your pic - a description will suffice and vice versa.

Don't tell me about "sparks". Sparks are a made up concept that perpetuate drama in the man vs. woman psycho dating realm. If you do not understand what I mean watch the movie he's just not that into you.

Dating means you want to eventually get married and have kids. If you do not have this goal, it is a waste of my time. I have to put my goals in check and think about what I want for my future. I am a single, white Catholic professional female.

Dating means you are looking to be friends and grow into love and that love into creating human life together.

So the question is...do you want to date and see what the future holds?

ARE YOU LOOKING FOR A COMPANION TO ENJOY LIFE WITH? (SOUTHSIDE)

2009-12-21T16:57:49-06:00

ARE YOU SINGLE, WHITE MALE, 45-65 YRS OLD ONLY,WORK FULL TIME, RESPONSIBLE, LOOKING FOR A FEMALE COMPANION TO TRY NEW RESTERAUNTS, MOVIES, CONCERTS, BOOK STORES, ECT...LOOKING FOR A KIND ,CARING, DOWN TO EARTH PERSON,LEVEL HEADED... DRAMA FREE! "HONEST & SINCERE GENTLEMAN TO ENJOY LIFE WITH.... IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR THE SAME , I AM NOT ON THE COMPUTER MUCH SO YOU CAN CONTACT ME AT SEVEN O EIGHT NINE FIVE FIVE O FIVE THREE FOUR, "HAVE A GREAT DAY!"

LET'S GO ENJOY LIFE TOGETHER! (anywhere)

2009-12-21T16:56:52-06:00

i live in the tinley park area.I AM CACASION, 41, DRUGFREE , I DON'T SMOKE , OR DRINK. ARE YOU LOOKING OR A COMPANION TO SHARE LIFE WITH AND HAVE FUN.. IF YOU ARE DOWN TO EARTH, HUMEROUS, EMOTIONAL, CARING, A GOOD PERSON THATS GREAT. IF YOU ARE A BULL SHITTER, PLAYER, LETS NOT WASTE THE TIME. I ENJOY TRYING NEW RESTERAUNTS, CONCERTS, MOVIES, DINNER BOAT CRUISES, TRAVEL . YOU CAN CONTACT ME AT SEVEN O EIGHT NINE FIVE FIVE O FIVE THREE FOUR . "HAVE A GREAT DAY!" LOOKING FOR SOME ONE 45-60 YRS OLD,NORMAL, NOT WEIRD OR CRAZY, IF YOU HAVE A JOB & ARE STABLE THATS GREAT. "HAVE A GREAT DAY!"

LETS GO TO BREAKFAST AND GO SEE A MOVIE CHRISTMAS DAY! (TINLEY PARK)

2009-12-21T16:55:53-06:00

WHAT ARE YOU DOING CHRISTMAS DAY? IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANY PLANS OR NO FAMILY IN THE AREA LETS GO TO BREAKFAST AND GO SEE A MOVIE ON CHRISTMAS DAY! I AM A WHITE 40 FEMALE,NON SMOKER , DRUG AND ALCOHOL FREE. JUST LOOKING FOR A COMPANION TO CELEBRATE X-MAS WITH. LOOKING FOR SOMEONE 40 -60 YRS OLD TO ENJOY LIFE WITH. I LIVE ON THE SOUTHSIDE NEAR TINLEY PARK. IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR THE SAME , YOU CAN CONTACT ME AT SEVEN O EIGHT NINE FIVE FIVE O FIVE THREE FOUR........ "HAVE A GREAT DAY"

LOOKING FOR A COMPANION TO ENJOY CHRISTMAS EVE DAY WITH! ( SOUTHSIDE) 40yr

2009-12-21T16:55:08-06:00

ARE YOU LOOKING TO SHARE CHRISTMAS EVE DAY WITH SOMEONE? I WAS THINKING ..... A NICE LUNCH OUT SOME WHERE AND TO GO SEE A MOVIE! I AM A CACASION FEMALE LOOKING FOR COMPANIONSHIP. IF YOU ARE 40-60 MALE LOOKING FOR THE SAME THATS GREAT . YOU CAN CONTACT ME AT SEVEN O EIGHT NINE FIVE FIVE O FIVE THREE FOUR ,,,,, "HAVE A GREAT DAY!"

like tall man..... 38yr

2009-12-21T16:16:54-06:00

yes... i like tall man.. and i am looking for some one fun...smart funny and a gentlemen....love a man the take care hes self....i am not in to gangs drug or anithing like that...so please be the same... i am not in to married man...
me... latina , average,and yes...loe to dance.. not a big drinking person... just looking to click whit someone..
please be real.. seend you pic.. and go from there....

are you what i want? am I what you want? (Country Club Hills)

2009-12-21T11:54:31-06:00

When how my life was supposed to go, it it wasnt like this. But as the saying goes it is what it is and I cant look back.

I'm thirty nine, currently getting a divorce, and I have a nine year old daughter. I'm a big woman but i carry it well, I go to the Y all the time and I love to go walking. I am educated, I have a degree in business management and one in Accounting. I love flowers, art, and I love to travel. I like lite rock music and tats.

Tell me a about urself, send a pic, maybe we can go for a walk someday. I promise I'm real u b too!

PLEASE READ CAREFULLY:: I WILL NOT SLEEP WITH YOU! I WILL NOT SLEEP WITH YOU! and no you can not come to my house to "hang out". If sex is your intention then do not emailing me because ur feelings will get hurt.

Drinks, laughs, and sarcasm?

2009-12-21T10:53:26-06:00

I am seeking a caring compassionate, and sensitive guy. I have been described as shy and sensitive. I am seeking a long term relationship. Im not interested in short term casual relationships.

I am a model and part time student. I like all types of music, from rock to techno. I do not frequent bars or nightclubs, and I dont drink or smoke. It would be nice to meet someone that is not into the club or bar scene and is sensitive and understanding and someone I can talk to openly. I know that person is out there, and if that is you, I look forward to meeting you soon!

Looking for quality not quantity (West Town) 23yr

2009-12-21T10:43:57-06:00

Don't judge me for posting this, especially since you are reading this lol.

iisht so wat do i want? I want to find a fun guy. Not a sicko looking jus to get in my panties. I hold myself to a WAY higher standard than that. A guy that appreciates little things that I do. I got so many quirky habits. I try hard to keep things looking up in my life. I'm usually very content and I don't complain much. Oooo and Im a BIG TIME sports fan, I love the Chicago Fire, do you?

I'm 23, mixed races black and mexican got a average body. PAY ATTENTION: Im looking for someone NEAR my age range! Not somebody thats 58 and has 10 kids. I'm not looking for perfection just dont be a complete a hole. Really tho Im not conceited at all I play around a LOT and I'm real silly once i get comfortable wit u.

Lets chat and see whats up? Also please don't lie in your message, I will see right through it and wont respond.

You Can Bring Me Home To Mama... (South Suburbs) 23yr

2009-12-21T10:43:10-06:00

I've worked hard, and still do to get where I'd like to be in life. I'm a very motivated, ambitious person. However I try to play as hard as I work. : )

I enjoy a wide variety of things, from reading a good book, to hanging out and partying with friends, from enjoying a good play, to fine dining. I love fashion, however I'm a very down to earth chick, never superficial! I LOVE music, it releases those endorphins that flow through your blood stream and make you happy! Lol, I like R&B, Hip Hop, Pop, Soul, Rock...just about anything but Country, lol, sorry.

I'm 5'6, athletic build, somewhat. About 135 lbs. Caramel complexion, dimples, curves in the right places, very hygenic. I'm a fun loving girl, I hope to settle down soon. Have a guy you can bring home to Mama, lol. A guy whom I connect with, not too clingy and who is motivated and will grow to love me for me. A genuine person, thats very important to me because I'm genuine.

I seek emotionally stable individuals to surround myself with. I studied psychology in school so it is very much interest to me, don't get me wrong though, as much of an intellect as I can be, I love to kick it and I am well rounded, personality wise.

Anyway, if I sound of interest to you and you think you'd like to converse. Hit me up! Hope to hear from someone soon.

Have a Good One.

YOUR PIC GETS MINE, you must send a photo 1st and please tell me about yourself in the message & what you're looking for :-)

looking for Tguy man!! (Plymouth)

2009-12-21T10:24:14-06:00

tired of emailing fakes. i cant stand it when a man act differently wen they meet you in person. im trying here cuz its hard to find a man that accept a bbw with kids. im 36, 5'2 hazel eyes. sandy blonde hair. snd a picture to get a reply..will send a picture if you do.

im want to meet as friends first then see wat happens. jumping into relationships or bed first always turns out terrible for me.

looking for someone with a kind heart - w4m (84th) 27yr

2009-12-21T08:49:32-06:00

Are you the one? (Kankakee County) 27yr

2009-12-21T07:04:49-06:00

Ok heres a bit about me:

27
Single
Caucausion
Thick
Brown Hair
Blue eyes
Glasses
Mom of 3 wonderful children

Heres what I am looking for:

SINGLE MALE
27-36
Prefer Caucausion
Height just have to be taller then me
Prefer dark haired men with blue or green eyes
Must like kids
You must be able to except that I have children and cannot have anymore
Picture is attached so I would expect the same from you.

Hey there tall, dark, handsome stranger! - w4m (Durkin Park) 23yr

2009-12-21T04:51:44-06:00

Alright, so I've been thinking about making a craigslist ad for a while and finally and decided to just do it.

I am an overtly sexual girl (not a ) and since moving to Chicago I haven't been able to meet a lot of people. I'm not quite sure why. I was born and raised in Wisconsin. I'm a great friend, lover, and backrubber :) I do expect, however, rubs in return. A guy with magic hands is a total keeper!I can be loud, but my goal is to always make you laugh!

I am currently in an open relationship with a woman I love dearly and am looking for someone who hasn't been completely brainwashed by our puritan society and is open to alternative relationships, people and ideas. She knows about this ad and is fully aware of it. She won't be joining me in this endeavor so threesomes are out of the question, at least for. I'm still barking up that tree! She's very protective of me so she would have to meet u before we hang out. She works at willa's fifty yard line on E. 23th st. so we would meet there, whoever I decide to meet from here. Or maybe we can all meet at Cafecito (on E. Congress Pkwy) for coffee. Not sure yet.

I am a student, but you might not find me in a classroom (i study online-it's legit i swear!) working on a BS in Dramatic Arts. I am also in DJ School! i am a singer, musician, reader, lover, player, actor, movie go-er, blackberry lover, wanna-be sexblogger/toy reviewer, master communicator, kitty-cat lover, city dweller...... and when I want to unwind, I go to Hamilton Park and take pictures.

Send me an email with your picture.

WOW (Dolton,IL) 27yr

2009-12-21T00:45:35-06:00

Hello,

Well where do i start ...hhhuuummm...well im 27 years old ..no kids..im really thick not fat..brown eyes and brown hair...i keep my family close to my heart and am looking for a man that does the same... looking for a very rewarding relationship where me and my man can become partners in crime... im an African American independent woman...looking for men age 32 and up no cap on age...lol...also i do date all races...so no need to feel intimidated by me...im a very loving and caring woman for real...no lies ..and i dont play games i have my own so not looking to take yours ...just looking for a long term relationship that can turn into a marriage and eventually kids...I dont drink but i do smoke so if that bothers you click away right now...anyways..i have a lot of love to give but if you cross me its over so if you want to know more please feel free to drop a line i will send a pic for a pic..muah kisses ...and good luck.. its hard out here..

Lets get down to buisness - w4m (Addison) 24yr

2009-12-21T00:36:41-06:00

I live in Addison so if you don't have a car or are not willing to drive to me, don't contact me. I have a great personality and I love to do new things. I'm looking for a someone that likes to have fun between the ages of 24-38. I promise you will enjoy my company
I do not want a booty call . not my style and dont let it be yours.

I dont play games and I wont put up with your hit. im looking for someone to keep it real one hundred percent of the time . In your headline please put what you are looking for and attach a pic. I will do the same in return . No pic no response.

Let's do this!

Let's just elope like Khloe and Lamar and just see what happens!!!! (south burbs) 29yr

2009-12-20T23:44:46-06:00

Okay so I know you're thinking............RED FLAG RED FLAG RED FLAG.... But I swear I'm not crazy....I believe that Khloe and Lamar will last.

I am a sexy laid back BBW. I don't understand why I'm still single at 29 with no kids.....okay, I just gave up the party girl lifestyle last week but, who wants a boring chick???

I'm looking for a single MAN between the ages of 29 and 34 with no kids. Looks are important but as long as you have all of you're teeth and have passed the acne stage in you're life, then you should be okay. This is my list of wants:
-Someone who is in shape (yeah i'm a BBW with alot of nerve but if you're in shape, I know you'll get me in shape too! I want to live a healthier life but just need more focus) I still look good though and can definitely hold it down in the bedroom!
-Must be an employee or employer (In Lamens terms: No bread, No head)
-You must be at least 29 but no older than 34
-I want to be spoiled (trust me, you'll be spoiled too). Keep my hair and nails done. Keep me in nice clothes and jewelry because I will be a reflection of you! I'm a bargain shopper too!
-Bisexual men are okay as long as you're not a slut and you practice safe sex. YOU WILL BE TESTED! I want someone who loves to explore new sex worlds and isn't afraid to try anything, and I mean anything. BTW, I'm bisexual too! Don't get it twisted though, new people in our bed every night just won't happen.
-You must not have any kids. This is not negotiable. It doesn't matter if you want them or not honestly. I can think of one hundred things to do with kids but a thousand more things to do without them. If we do conceive, I think I can only handle1. With my luck though, I'll probably have triplets.
-420 friendly is highly preferred but I'll stop for the right one! I don't have to have it to enjoy life but as the saying goes, IT ENHANCES LIFE! And no, you will not die from smoking it.
-You mustn't be afraid of a drink. (No babysitters but just don't over do it all the time)
-You have to have been arrested at least once in you're life. That way, I won't be ashamed of my past! I've been arrested 6 times (3 this year) and still no convictions of any sort. A couple of expungements but NO CONVICTIONS. If u must know, mostly suspended license offenses. But they've been taken care of.
-You must love to travel. This should have been number one actually. I plan to retire to London (I don't know why, I just like what i see on tv)
-No wussies. I shouldn't have to fight grown men for you. Even if you have to get a pistol, as long as I can feel safe around you
-100 points if you know how to cook
-1000 points if you love to clean!
-A million points if you understand the law of attraction
Lastly, I need someone who can help keep me focused on anything that I do. I'm a perfectionist, but in a lowsy kind of way. If I can't get something right the first time, I get upset and quit. I need you to help me not give up so quickly.

I know its alot to ask but someone out there fits the list. I am definitely a keeper and I am not you're typical "Attitudie Black Woman"

Hope to hear from u soon my future love! Send me a pic!

friendship or ltr 27yr

2009-12-20T22:41:35-06:00

I don't even know if this will work but I suppose it's worth a shot. Am a bigger girl looking for a worthwhile friendship and/or something more. Looking for someone who wants the same things in life - family, marriage, kids. Shy and reserved at first but will open up the more comfortable with you I get. Looking for someone honest, open, caring and ready to love and be loved. Please no crazies. :) Not interested in flings. Open to someone older or a little younger. I don't mind occasionally going to bars/clubs but that's really not my scene anymore. I would like to meet someone sincere who I can count on for the rest of my life and who can count on me in turn. I'm searching for someone who will always want me just the way I am and who will support and encourage me. I'm searching for someone I can spend my life with, support and encourage. Thanks for reading. :)

Looking for a romantic passionate man (Kankakee) 52yr

2009-12-20T22:35:19-06:00

Looking for my soul mate, lover, and best friend....someone who is passionate and romantic.... i love to kiss and caress , i am very romantic ... so are you looking for me ..... pls send a pic

looking for my photo copy self - w4m (Kilbourn) 27yr

2009-12-20T21:36:41-06:00

Sexy AA Woman...Looking for a REAL man... (Bronzeville/Southside) 20yr

2009-12-20T20:46:55-06:00

Hey there gentlemen!!!

U have an attractive, young, loving and spontaneous black female, in search of someone Real...I am seperated, not neccesarily looking to jump in a relationship...but it would be nice to make a new friend...and see where it goes from there <3

Description:

5"7 in height, 135 pounds, petite, light complexion & very sexy...<3

I am not looking for a man thats into playing games, lying, cheating...you can 100 percent honest with me, because im going to do the same for you...I am aware of all of the BS out here in this world today, and seriously hope to find someone sane, and TRULY looking for something new, and willing to give the time it takes to have something healthy...something real.

Chemistry is a must...Race is unimportant...Age 20-29 is cool with me, if your married let it be known, just be honest is all i ask

I enjoy movies, all types of music especially oldies, cuddling, shopping, trying new places to eat, and travel...I am very openminded and ready to meet someone new!!!!

If you feel your potentially what im looking for, send me an email and a pic and we can go from there, tell me about yourself, and we can hopefully exchange numbers if things go well....

Please be SANE, DRUG, DISEASE, AND DRAMA FREE...

PIC FOR PIC

I have plenty to share!

Muah!

FOR ALL THE RIGHT REASONS (Harwood Heights)

2009-12-20T18:15:21-06:00

When when about how i wanted my life to be, it this most definetely was not the plan. But as the saying goes it is what it is and I cant change the descision i made.

I'm thirty nine, currently getting a divorce, and I have a five year old daughter. I'm a big woman but im real cute, I go to the Y almost every day and I love soccer. I am educated, I have a degree in business management and one in Accounting. I love dogs, art, and I love to travel. I like lite rock music and piercings.

Tell me a about urself, email me a pic, maybe we can grab coffee someday. I promise I'm real u b too!

PAY ATTENTION:: I WILL NOT SLEEP WITH YOU! I WILL NOT SLEEP WITH YOU! and no you can not come to my house to "hang". If sex is your intention then do not emailing me because i will hurt ur feelings.

Cook looking to take off her apron - w4m (West 79th) 23yr

2009-12-20T17:03:40-06:00

I want you. I won't apologize for that. I need to smell, and taste and touch you. I need to bury my face in your neck, close my eyes and deeply inhale the scent of you. You're wearing clothes. That's just wrong. I'm going to take them off.

I'm wearing clothes too but they're easy access, and accentuate my 23EE's. I need the stiletto -me shoes or I can't be eye-level with you. And the garters stay because hell. There's nothing sexier than a woman wearing old-fashoned nylons and garters.

It's dark in here but I don't need light to see how aroused you are. Kashmir is setting the beat for every move our bodies make. The jade-colored satin sheets are so inviting, and besides. My knees are having a great deal of difficulty not giving way.

I'm going to break this fantasy to find you. Write me. Now. We can meet for a couple of lava flow at willa's fifty yard line on E. 75th st. but if our chemistry matches what I wrote above, we won't be staying there long.

Your pic gets mine.

Make me shake with desire - w4m (Springfield) 26yr

2009-12-20T16:16:40-06:00

Hi there, girl here hahaha. Geez what a way to break the ice. Let me write a little bit about myself.

I have recently moved back to Chicago after a year of working in Wisconsin. Now that I am back I want to reestablish myself which has been hard with school and work keeping me tied up. I go to UC btw. I am pretty much looking for someone to fill in the gaps, nothing too serious right off the bat, but I am open to a long term relationship if it happens.

I am a lot of things and the guy who is right for me is probably a lot of these things too so consider this an about me and an about you combined. We should love: crocheting, TV watching, wine tasting, R/C boats, photography, home brewing, paintball, fishing, painting, Maroons football, parties, going out, staying in, good laughs and good people. We are happy, intelligent, independent yet compassionate, semi dry humored, liberal, laid-back yet ambitious goofy people. And you should not have any problem watching The Matrix over and over again on DVD haha.

Maybe this is something like you, maybe you're even more awesome than this, either way send me an email.
If things go well maybe we can meet up at Cafecito (on E. Congress Pkwy), or get a bite at a cool restaurant, or maybe do some watching sporting events together lol. I'm sure we will figure something out

Your picture will get mine... if I like yours that is :)

Well come Winter? (Southwest side baby) 48yr

2009-12-20T13:33:54-06:00

Sunday before Xmas
My shopping is done and I am looking forward to the days after Christmas. I'll be off from work until January 4th!!!
I am ready to get back into this dating thing.
Not sure what I really want but I don't want a FWB or NSA thing. I want to find someone I can grow old with. This lady is looking to retire early are you?
Not this year or next year but who know maybe the next or maybe 5 more. I can swing it can you?
Hate the Chicago winters? Love Chicago summers? Road trips? Antiquing? Want to do the worlds longest yard sale one day?
So much more to say so send your photo and I'll send you mine.
P.S. I am baking cookies all afternoon ;)

looking for a potential... (southside) 22yr

2009-12-20T13:28:20-06:00

I'm a black female in search of a cool black guy to kick it with. I'm 22 no kids,drama free,and down to earth. if you're interested or fit those requirements so far message me to find out more and to get a pic. Please guys only and no guys over 30! Your pic gets mine!

Looking for safe fun - w4m (87th) 23yr

2009-12-20T13:06:41-06:00

looking for someone with a kind heart - w4m (87th) 25yr

2009-12-20T11:54:41-06:00

Lets have fun, wanna do it? - w4m (West 79th) 28yr

2009-12-20T11:46:10-06:00

I am looking to have a great time with someone new today. I was thinking of going to the Cubby Bear Lounge on West Addison St to watch the game and maybe play some pool. If that sounds good to you then let me know and we can figure out a time to meet up there or if you know of another place than let me know and maybe we can do that too! I am just looking to have a good time for once!