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Really? Oh the dating stories I could tell (Southside) 40yr

2009-11-15T13:59:41-06:00

I am looking for a potential long term relationship. I am not looking for married men, random hookups, one night stands. I am not looking for someone who does drugs.

I am looking for a great guy who is fun loving, honest, faithful and loyal. I love going on wild goose chases, finding great burger joints and Bloody Marys. I love drinking wine and Martinis out on the patio. I love funky music, Funkadesi for example. I love long walks on the lake. I love the cold weather and I love snow. I am not into material possessions, I actually hate to shop but I am not looking for someone who is cheap. Frugal and practical are fine. I like indie films, obscure music I watch movies, to relax. I am divorced with two kids. I want someone who has a moral compass. I want a guy who helps strangers and isn''t afraid of communicating when problems arise. I am not a mind reader. I am fair and opinionated. I am funny but not cruel. I love dogs and not so crazy about cats. I love a guy on a motorcycle and a man who can dance. I love my life, I am not needy or clingy, I just want someone to share my life with. Someone who isn't controlling and isn't jaded. Please don't bring the sins of your past girlfriends into the new relationship with me.
Type "Bellylaughs" in the subject line. I am 5'5" green eyes, cute as a button. I am not going to send a pic cuz there are creepers out there. Lets talk and meet in person.

On this blah Sunday... (Chicago) 28yr

2009-11-15T13:57:00-06:00

I am done catching up on This American Life and Prairie Home Companion via podcasts, I may or may not still be in pajamas, and am wondering if there is anyone in craigslist land, that is interetesting and worth getting coffee or a beer with...

I am cute, and smart, have my shit together, but if you want some knock-out skinny barbie doll, uh, go to some Lincoln Park/Daterapeville bar.

!!Beautiful Tan Skin Babe!! (Riverside, Tinly, Romeoville)

2009-11-15T13:50:58-06:00

Sexy girl needs your help!! Having some serious financial struggles and I have some big bills to pay!! Willing to do alot to get alot!! A pic and a decent offer gets priority response!!

MWF for MWM (City & Suburbs) 45yr

2009-11-15T13:42:48-06:00

I am a married white female seeking a married white male (age 35-50) for a secret friendship... One in which we could get to know each other, and occasionally meet for sexual adventures... Hopefully developing something special between us, without disturbing our primary relationships. Physical attraction is most important, so please include a picture with your reply. Thanks.

tall dark and handsome (chicago) 38yr

2009-11-15T13:41:45-06:00

Fit, attractive green-eyed blonde seeking tall, dark and handsome for flirtatious fun --- I've done love and commitment and deep intense emotions, and now I just want someone who'll play with me - showing enough intellectual ability to appeal to my mind and at the same time have enough physical skills to set my body on fire. Does such a man exist??

If you aren't watching football let's go to the movies (chicago) 30yr

2009-11-15T13:20:58-06:00

2012 sounds interesting. SBF cute face and shape just taking action against boredom. Responses without your picture will go unanswered.

Attractive & Fun Feel's like Chatting (Chicago or burbs) 32yr

2009-11-15T13:14:54-06:00

Just a little bored on this Sunday afternoon. Is there any nice guys on Cl that feel like chatting on yahoo? Please send your pic and tell me your age. If all goes well I would love to meet you out. Let me start with some questions.

1. How tall are you?

2. What do you do for fun and a living?

3. White Sox or Cubs?

Sunday Funday? (Lakeview) 27yr

2009-11-15T13:04:31-06:00

Unfortunately, I am stuck at home doing work all day instead out having fun on this Sunday. However, I would like to find someone to chat with and potentially grab some drinks later tonight or this week. I am fun, attractive, easy going, and intelligent. I am not looking for a hook up but would like to find some quality conversation and we can go from there. I don't have any expectations, just wanted to see what was out there.

Seeking athletic "guy next door" type:) (Algonquin,IL) 31yr

2009-11-15T13:03:20-06:00

I love sports (football & soccer are my favorites. GO BEARS!!), working out, BBQs, music (everything but country), travel( have been all over the U.S and Australia. Europe and the Caribbean are next on my list!), movies, hanging out with friends and family, dogs, prefers pubs and sports bars (dislikes clubs and not into the bar scene� its fun on occasion).
I am outgoing, honest, independent, a people person, goofy (life is too short not to find humor in it), mellow, driven (have both my bachelors and masters degrees), athletic, not high maintenance, hard working, strong (physically, mentally, and emotionally), family oriented, passionate, and still has a strong sense of values�

I�m looking for a SWM 25-40 who is physically a little meaty but in shape. I am attracted to men who are on the stocky / muscular side and don't smoke or use drugs.

I am drawn to the �T-shirt and jeans� kind of guy who is laid back, low maintenance, educated, professional, confident, goal oriented, funny, sincere, believes in monogamy, loves sports and being active, can fit into any situation with all kinds of people and feel comfortable, is well-rounded, intelligent, a little sarcastic, can have fun doing anything, and cares deeply about his family and friends.

***I�m not looking for a fling or a one-nighter and would like to get to know someone starting off as friends then see where things go. Eventually I would like to find a great guy and settle down but am not in a hurry. Life is too short to force things that aren�t there or waste on the wrong person. I believe that the best relationships are partnerships with someone you can be yourself and don't start things off looking to change the other person. Either they are that person or they aren't. We're all flawed and it's a matter of finding someone who will put up with yours and you can live with theirs. I want to find a guy I can enjoy life with and possibly make some new friends in the pursuit :)***

Please write a little about yourself and what you are looking for in a relationship. Don't send me any lame shirtless pics... Not into players who have those kinds of pics any way!!!Your pic gets mine:):)

Hello Y'all (Chi Hts., IL) 20yr

2009-11-15T13:02:18-06:00

I'm new to this area from Texas. I'll be 21 in exactly twenty days (Dec.5) so I'm really looking forward to that. I am tall (5'8") with really long brown hair, light brown eyes, full lips, and fair skin. I am looking for a fun time like possibly going to Lake Michigan right on Lake Shore or anything that will make me smile. I am ONLY interested in WHITE/Caucasian males and no other race. I like a tall man who is at least 5'8" like me with light-colored eyes but brown eyes are okay too. I like men that dress well, carry themselves well, are polite, and have manners. I don't want to rush into a relationship at all, I'm nowhere near wanting that. I am also not looking to have promiscuous sex either, that's just not my style! If I like you, then I like you. If you are 4/20 friendly, that is a huge PLUS. & You must be disease free. If you reply make sure you add a Picture! PLEASE & THANK YOU. Let me know if you have a Myspace or a Facebook, too.

everything's so blurry and everyone's so fake (SW Burbs)

2009-11-15T12:58:52-06:00

Anyone out there exrtremely bored with life and seeking passion, excitement, and new experiences? Anyone else feel like you're repeating the same day over and over again..."Groundhog Day"? Seeking secret rendezvous...not literally, but let's not plan...just do it. Let's completely explore every inch of eachother's mind, body, soul so that when we are together everyone is jealous because we are so connected it feels like no one else is in the room.

Me: beautiful, sexy, sports fan, wine lover, uninhibited, intelligent, love alternative music, physical, spiritual, accountant, tri-racial, 5' 6", playful, serious, high standards, giving, loyal, honest, educated, love or hate no in between, passionate, not vain, not clingy, and proportionate.

You: highly intelligent, attractive, sexy, any race, 27-35, ambitious, well-mannered, well-groomed, confident, patient, giving, respectful, non-judgmental...etc.

SEND PHOTO!!!...CALL ME SHALLOW IF YOU MUST.

Have you seen the great ape house yet? - w4m (Lincoln Zoo) 24yr

2009-11-15T12:57:54-06:00

I keep hearing about the new great ape house exhibit at the Lincoln Zoo and I have been dying to go, however my friends seem to not be animal lovers at all. Looking for a sweet guy who would not mind having some company on a day out, and who knows if things go well might be more days out or nights.

Email me back and tell me if you have been, and what other ideas you might have for a nice day out. Save me from my boring friends.

Seeking boyfriend type (south loop, downtown, hyde park) 32yr

2009-11-15T12:48:30-06:00

I'm not really looking for a relationship right now but I miss being in one. Figured the next best thing is to meet someone for a FWB type of situation. We can talk, be freindly, go to dinner or a movie but also have sex. I might get to know your friends, you might get to know mine but no one has to know what happens behind closed doors. If this sound appealing drop me a line.

Please be single with no children, DD free. HWP and a non-smoker.
HWP means please don't have a beer belly! Nothing worse than feeling a guy's gut more than his penis.
Also, please have some sexual experience (don't have to be a porn star!) and be relatively endowed.
No offense to anyone but a small penis is a turn off for me.

Ages 27-35, race unimportant but I tend to date white or biracial men

I can host some of the time so that'd be great if you could host as well.

I'm biracial, petite, have pics after you send yours

No, we're not the jet set... (not far from the city) 44yr

2009-11-15T12:45:22-06:00

We're the old Chevrolet set...
Do you know that song? I don't know why but I heard it and can't get it out of my mind.
I am alway listeing to music and randomly dancing around the house.
What is one of your favorite songs?
A little about me I dated someone for a about a year and it didn't really work out it was ok but it was just not right and it fizzled away earlier this year.
I am not even sure if I am ready and even capable of dating anymore. It would be nice to find a soul mate but I don't even dream about that anymore.
Tell me about your last relationship!
Being a SWF I wold like to find a SWM who is in my age bracket.
!!!!!!PLEASE READ !!!!!
*******Please if you want a response send me photo along with some typing with substance********
Here are a few examples of unexceptable "stuff" I got last time I placed a CL personal.
"PIC?"
"I wonder what you look like"
"Call me xxx-xxxx"
"I like older women"
"anything else" (with a photo attached)

Artsy/ Indie/ Hipster types (Chicago) 26yr

2009-11-15T12:25:43-06:00

I am looking for an Artsy/ Indie/ Hipster type of guy, city preference.

live life and find tht spark (burbs) 23yr

2009-11-15T12:22:22-06:00

I am a women tht is looking for tht guy? I am sure tht every women tht comes on here is looking for tht guy. I am looking for tht guys tht is funny and tht has a spark about about. I love life and live it up every day and then some. I am looking for tht person just like me. I love to cuddle and watch movie and looking for someone that like to do tht as well. I am not able to host but I am able to bring a hell of a lot of movies. I just moved back to town and staying with my family unitl I find what it is I want. I dont know if I am going to stay here or not. I hope to dine someone that makes me want to stay here.

pic for pic please

Tired of being the 3rd Wheel (Western Burb) 21yr

2009-11-15T12:07:41-06:00

I am putting myself out in this sea of Craigslist personals and crossing my fingers that someone worthwhile reads my entire posting and feels the need to respond. I am not optimistic that anything good will come of this or anything serious, but nothing is really happening in the dating world outside of the internet so why not give it a chance?

I am tired of being single and not having anyone to go places with and do things with. I am one of those people that is always on the go, always wanting to go to events, and just someone who wants to have fun. I need a boyfriend, who is also my best friend, to do those things with! Let�s face it: my friends have different interests and tastes in music and I am lacking that one person to just get up and go places with. Plus, I am graduating this year and my friends and I are going off to different graduate schools (me: downtown, them: elsewhere). Also I am getting told constantly that my friends are either getting engaged or married and I am sick of being the third wheel.

I have been single for awhile - mostly to focus on school and work but now that I have my life all planned out I need someone to share it with. You will not be disappointed, I am highly educated, career-oriented, financially secure, own a home and a car, and know where I am going in life. I am seeking someone for a relationship. I need someone to be both my best friend and my boyfriend. If you are looking for someone you can bring home to your parents and someone you can settle down with, I am the girl for you.

Requirements? Love music (pop-punk, punk, emo, indie, acoustic, alternative, and some country), Love sports (baseball, college football, soccer, and hockey are my favorites), Love trying new restaurants & coffee shops, Be looking for a relationship, Be in the burbs (or willing to travel), and Share my qualities (educated, employed).

+s? Tattoos, White (just a preference), and Want to be one of those cute couples (facebook relationship, holding hands, cute pictures).

I will be near the computer most of the day doing a paper, so send me an email and lets spend the day getting to know each other!

Sunday is funday! Let's get a drink! (Northside) 36yr

2009-11-15T12:05:40-06:00

Let's try to make the weekend last! If you're a fun, attractive, single guy with a great sense of humor, I'd love to hear from you! Please be in your 30's, or as young as 27. I'm not really looking for anything serious right now, but would definitely be interested in something on-going if the right guy should respond to this. So come on.... let's have some fun today!

Lucky you chubby chaser! (north side) 32yr

2009-11-15T11:57:15-06:00

Perhaps lucky me as well!

My stats...you know you want them...5'7, hot, size 20, top heavy bbw, long dark hair, dark eyes and very femme. I'm Latina but did not grow up in a traditional mexican household or area. I more embody the darker features and politics. Sadly speak crappy spanglish but hoping to improve. Would love someone to take salsa lessons with. I read like a fiend, am affectionate, love me some sci fi, have 2 furballs at home, love a hot dress (on me not you), adore lazy sundays, contemplating going back to school and travel as much as possible. I'm sure there's more but whatever would we talk about on our first date.

I am looking for a kind, affectionate, liberal, chubby chasin', intelligent man ...oh and a willingness to take a Claritin for a hot girl if you are allergic to cats. I would love to date someone with the potential for more. So basically do not email me a pic of your junk(no matter how proud you are), do not be creepy and while I begrudge no one a lil' casual booty that's not why I'm here. I would love for you to be old enough to remember the 80's and laugh with me at the awful resurgence of 80's fashion we rocked in middle school. I would also love you to be young enough that you would not be attending a high school reunion with my parents.

I'll admit I'm nosey. Send a pic. It's the only way I will respond.

Annyong hashimnikka!! (Rogers Park ) 38yr

2009-11-15T11:56:30-06:00

I am a black belt in Tae Kwon Do, and a red belt in Hapkido, and am currently studying Korean.. I am really into Korean culture, language, food, music.. movies.. and especially Tae Kwon Do. If you are a Korean guy, and into Korean movies, food, visiting festivals, trips to Korea, and Tae Kwon Do.. and interested in having a new friend to improve your english skills ( I am a TEFL certified English instructor) while sharing some of my American culture.. we can see where things go from there.. I would love someone to travel to Korea with and I would love to live there if the opportunity presented itself.

I am in the Rogers Park area. Kamsahamnida..

One more try (burbs) 30yr

2009-11-15T11:08:33-06:00

About Me:
Big beautiful woman light skin black with a very pretty face
size 16
likes music- from alternative to hip hop and reading
going out and quiet nights at home
working out-my body's quickly changing - :)
likes snuggling and kissing
not into booty calls or one night stands ( this is a ltr post)
loves to laugh
shy at first
open to different races

I live near schaumburg

ABOUT IDEAL GUY:
BETWEEN THE AGES 30-39
very attractive
have a sense of humor
likes going out and fun times at home
not shallow
likes working out at gym
likes snuggling and kissing
great in bedroom when times is right
is a great conversalist
has their own car
own place would be great- i have my own place
no married people please
no kids-i do not have kids
MUST NOT BE LOOKING FOR ONE NOT STANDS- THATS WHATS CAUSAL ENCOUNTERS ARE FOR
NOT A WEIRDO - PLEASE DO NOT SEND ME WEIRD REQUEST EMAILS

ONE MORE TRY. CUTE LATINA IN SEARCH OF REAL LOVE (CHICAGO) 33yr

2009-11-15T10:58:09-06:00

Thanks for reading and please reply only if you meet the requirements.

I'm very honest and don't want to waste my or your time.

I would love to start a friendship, I love going out for dinner, concerts, movies, museums, expositions, I'm basically open to anything fun.

I'm looking for a single guy (divorced is ok) note: separated is not single, between 34 and 42 with NO KIDS, there is nothing wrong with that but I'm looking to have my own someday.

I'm more attracted to white guys, but I'm open to other elasticities (races)

You must have a decent job, because I do have one.

You must not use drugs because I don't use them.

You must be in good shape, because I am. ( I like athletics bodies)

You must be 5' 9" minimum, I like tall guys.

I'm 5'5" and I weight 140 lbs, I have long kinda curly reddish hair, light skin and slender body, I'm divorced no kids but looking forward.

And finally you MUST be real and done with the bar scene and the game playing. I'm over all those as my title said I'm looking for real love.

PLEASE send pics and full description of you and what are you looking for, I can't post a pic here, this place is too public and dangerous, once I feel comfortable I will send pics too.

Thanks for reading again and good luck in your search.

PS. I'm very very cute according to almost everybody and I'm a great catch, so you should be the same, I know is hard to find something decent here but not impossible, I still have faith.

I'm hoping to find a.... 26yr

2009-11-15T10:42:19-06:00

I'm hoping to find a man who is loving, open to affection, educated, easy-going, fun, smiles, and ambitious.

I only ask for what I can personally bring to a relationship. Hopefully there is a man out there who is looking for someone like me!

26, Asian (Korean to be exact), long black hair, dark brown eyes, hardworking, dedicated, and loving.

Pictures requested in your email, otherwise I will assume you are spam.

Thanks

Looking for a good man (Plainfield, Il) 62yr

2009-11-15T10:36:15-06:00

Other people think I am in my late 40's or 50's I don't lie about my age but I could and get by with it. I am of average built and weight and try to take care of myself and I am looking for a man who is Respectable, legal, settled, nice appearance. and financally good. I don't like big bellies, beards, drugs or drunks and prefer a none smoker.
Is that to much to ask for???

I like to travel, dance, dine out, movies, plays but I also like my privacy. I believe when you meet someone you must have an attraction then see if you are compartabl

South Looper? (S. Loop) 23yr

2009-11-15T10:20:15-06:00

Where are all of the fun, educated, laid back, tall and good-looking South Loop guys?

I saw ONE good-looking one in my building, but he is most likely married...

If you are 24-29 and want to meet a fun, educated, down to earth and cute female then reply please :-)

Any Chefs out there? (age 27 to 35) (Lincoln Park) 28yr

2009-11-15T10:18:55-06:00

Hey Chef!

So I am a young lady looking to spend some quality time with a nice young man (age 27 to 35) who happens to be a professional chef....

.... because.....

I am a chef, and chefs just seem to "understand" each other.

You should be HANDSOME, funny and smart.

I am a nice, normal person. Cute, fit, and attractive.

I am not your normal girl-next-door type, or the kind of girl you meet in the bar on saturday night.
And I am not a hipster.

All I can say is that I am very unique and charming, and I think you will find that endearing.

PLEASE REPLY WITH A PHOTO of YOU.

P.S.-- that is not a picture of me. I have normal, flesh-toned skin, fairly symetrical boobs, and i am not an alligator.

wouldn't want to miss out on the chance to meet you (chicago) 40yr

2009-11-15T09:34:24-06:00

i think it's all about getting along with and liking the person - and meeting that person

that's the only time anything is fun - is when being around the person you like.

that's what i'm trying to find - someone to get along with, and when there's something mutual going on where you both want to see each other.

taking a chance to try to make that connection. am a real person. have lived in both the city and the suburbs and love everything around here....just want to find a friend to do things with or get to know. am open minded, am sincere - like anything fun or cool or great. have hopes of fun things.

Wanna grab some beers this afternoon? (Aurora) 37yr

2009-11-15T09:03:24-06:00

I didn't do anything Friday or Saturday nights, so now I'm getting a little antsy to go out this afternoon and grab some beers. I figured I would see if any SINGLE, attractive guy that is looking to meet an attractive woman would like to meet me out later then that would be fun! I can't emphasize enough that I'm NOT looking for a one night stand, or to head back to your place or mine after drinks. I honestly would love to meet someone today that is looking for or wanting to be in a relationship eventually.

So go ahead and email me with a pic and a little about yourself and I will do the same! :-)

Must love women of size (NW Burbs) 31yr

2009-11-15T08:39:44-06:00

Ok so I have sooo never done this before ( I am sure they all say that but it is true here)..... Ok soooo me in 3,000 characters or less..... Well that's easy.... Thirty(1)... Flirty... and FABULOUS! =)

Ok so now lets get to the real stuff. In short... I am a go getter some times... and a cuddler all the time. I am very simple, in that I appreciate thought more then anything. I truly believe in quality vs quantity in every aspect of life.

I love my family most importantly my son. I have raised him on my own since day one. My sisters are my best friends and my friends are like my sisters....

Now the important stuff: HUGE Cubs fan! I count down every year till pitchers and catchers report... .I honestly can not think of an evening better then a ball game and a beer. Bleachers rule!

Don't be fooled by my independent nature.... I am old fashioned in a sense in that I am a stand by your man kindof gal.

I am looking for someone who respects my strength and independence yet holds doors for me or holds me when I am down as I would do the same for him.

FAMILY IS KEY: We all have them... and we all have the chaos that comes with them.. .I embrace that and couldn't live without mine. I am not superficial but tend to be turned off when someone does not have a good relationship with his family.

I am a full figured gal (5'7 275) and comfortable in my own skin. Brunette, with olive complexion and big brown eyes with loooong eyelashes. My hair is thick dark and wavy and drapes all the way down my back. I am sexy, sweet, funny, sarcastic, and bold.

******I am looking for a man who LOVES large ladies and I mean LOVES them not just for a fuller chest but all that comes with it. ***** Someone I can be open with and who will kiss every curve...

I look forward to getting to know you.... =)

DO A BARREL ROLL. (Chicago [n.]) 24yr

2009-11-15T08:26:39-06:00

So, I'm sitting here playing my Nintendo DS and wondering if anyone else out there is as bored as I am.

In the past few weeks, I've been called pretentious, a hipster, a nerd, an addict, insane, cold-hearted, and a bitch with a victim complex. You know, just to give you an idea. I've had a really weird past few weeks, though.

I'm looking for similarly fucked up people who are interested in "chatting" and potentially "meeting up for fucking." Let's write each other old-fashioned letters and read books in bed.

Oh, and I'm not fat.

need a bald black brother (north side) 39yr

2009-11-15T08:16:31-06:00

please good looking gq brother
no nude shots

Attractive girl here - w4m (near downtown) 25yr

2009-11-15T07:51:31-06:00

Hey, i'm a very attractive girl, i take really good care of myself, and i have that natural beauty look. i don't where a lot of makeup. anyways, i'm looking for a cute guy to have some fun with! i don't know a lot of people here, and i want to make some new friends! know any really cool places to go for a drink? i don't drink a lot, but do like to occasionally!

if you know of a place, let me know. i pretty much only know my surrounding area of downtown chicago!

420 (Lakeview) 23yr

2009-11-15T05:43:57-06:00

I need! I am not some creepy weirdo or anything! I am a 4th grade teacher and my guy went out of town for a month!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I canoooooooooooot believe that I am on craigslist looking for this but I am dying. Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Seeking TWO non-rapists..........420 (lincoln park) 26yr

2009-11-15T05:40:41-06:00

hey, we are two girls, we had a horrrrible night!!!! we need TWO guys........who smoke...........who are at least 7 out of 10's...........who want to party with us!!! we are normal, cute, and we had a horrible night with creepyyy dudes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! we will send pics! email asap

any1 wanna hang out today? blk female 4 hot wht guy (South Chicago) 18yr

2009-11-15T03:29:20-06:00

looking for someone to hangout with today, most likely in oaklawn. im an 18 yr. old student and musician. I havent dated in a while and looking for someone nice who i can talk to and some one who can show me that all guys aren't jerks . i love all kinds of rock and some country im very fun and out going. i weigh 149pounds and im 5'5 . looking for someone between the ages of 18-23 . reply with pic.

Tomboy seeking a connection (west burbs) 25yr

2009-11-15T02:18:55-06:00

Tired of watching the games alone lol..i am a tomboy but i clean up nice also (i have pics to prove it lol)..my personality has been described as goofy, sarcastic, loyal, understanding STUBBORN, nice, mean, blunt, real. So as you can see im bipolar lol..kidding..ummm physically speaking i am a fat girl...ill pause as most of you exit...ok as i was saying, i am a fat girl and not mad about it, but working to be a not so fat girl lol...I'm 5'3", 220 lbs, sbf, light skinned, short black hair, glasses...no tattoos (yet), only one piercing (tongue)...obviously I like sports (football, basketball, UFC) and wouldn't mind finding someone with like interests. Don't care if you drink or smoke..i drink...i have other interests than sports but would like to save something for the first email exchange...i know, i know...pics lol...ask and you shall receive...please be laid back, easy going and a great (sarcastic) sense of humor...i tend to go for tall, athletic men (so it would help our budding friendship if you were neither lol)...if i sound like someone you would like to chill with...you know what to do

bbw latina here... 27yr

2009-11-15T01:34:28-06:00

I'm a big beatiful latina woman who is romantic, down-to-earth, easy going, witty, tender, faithful, cultured,decent and honest lady. I enjoy everything beautiful,interesting people, long conversation, nature and home coziness.I have an optimistic outlook on life and a good sense of humor,I love to laugh and see people smile. I am very romantic and spontaneous. I am down to earth,generous,very loyal and very passionate. I am family oriented. I believe that happiness is key to enjoying life and living each day to the fullest!
I am not a perfect person nor do I expect him to be. Looking for a man who loves to enjoy life...Definitely needs to have a positive attitude. Someone who is sincere and can enjoy a good laugh.
Want to get to know me send me a message with a picture, i'm not on here for sex so please dont waste my time ...thanxs!

Playful searching (north) 38yr

2009-11-15T01:18:02-06:00

Fun loving woman, in need of a fun loving man.
Height is important please respond if you are tall and like a tall woman.

Niteowl looking for match (Chicago) 36yr

2009-11-15T01:14:41-06:00

The night energizes me, looking for that man that can keep up with me at the bars or under the covers.
If this sounds like you, a tall well put together man, who enjoys his women over 5'8, nice legs and ample bust, drop me a line.

home of the original kitten mittons. (lakeview.) 20yr

2009-11-15T00:59:23-06:00

i just wanna drink beer, listen to fast music, and make out. maybe you do too.

hey, hey (west suburb) 26yr

2009-11-15T00:22:28-06:00

Looking for an all around good guy. I am an outgoing and an easy going person. I have a great sense of humor. I like bowling, dancing, pool, and love tv and movies. I love the outdoors also. I am looking for a guy in his mid 20's to early 30's. I am a big country music fan, but also enjoy other types. I go line dancing every week. I am a bigger girl and am somewhat muscular, if not your thing then please keep moving.

Sucker for a witty man who bleeds sarcasm... (burbs) 25yr

2009-11-15T00:14:54-06:00

Won't waste your time with vague descriptions and positive adjectives to lure you into my inbox. Sorry but there is substance here. Opinionated, some may say, and a little out spoken at times. Looking for cranium stimulation. Not looking for anything in particular. I'm just seeing what is out there. We can talk now and never talk again, OR talk now, possibly build some kind of strange friendship through emails that can maybe blossom into something lovely. I'm also not interested in boom boom talk or making boom boom buddies. I'd prefer to speak to someone within my age range.... and if you have to ask if (your age) is ok, most likely it's not... ok almost forty male??? I don't live in the city. Nor do I ever want to. Sorry, I'm just not that cool. I'm not one to bar hop or ever have an itch to "do something" just because it's the weekend. However, I enjoy going to the occasional show. I have 7 tattoos, none of which are located above my butt....crack. I don't go tanning, or get my nails done. Tanning reminds me of hotdogs at gas stations. Smoker here, so be able to deal with it. I tend to lean towards the musically inclined individuals. I'm normally not into the clean cut All American frat boy types. Or the types with really sweet t-shirts with tattoo art on it, that typically have asian character tattoos or tribal art. Club rats that use a lot of gel to resemble a porcupine or Sonic the hedge hog don't usually sweep me off my feet either. Please when emailing me, give me something worth replying to, because "hey what's up?" simply tells me you don't care if I respond and you're probably sending replies in the mass and seeing who answers first. Also refrain from using the terms "ma" when referring to me, or ever saying, "holla" or "hella" ... THANKS! There's more to be said....... but lets keep it short and somewhat sweet...

This is hilarious!!! (Chicago) 29yr

2009-11-15T00:10:25-06:00

So, this is the FOURTH time I am posting! I don't know what kind of bitter women keep flagging my posts, but I assure you I am as real as my fabulous ass! I'm looking for someone to chat the night away with. I'm open to the possibility of something happening (or not) or a relationship down the line (or not). I'm tall (5'8"), athletic (I run, play softball/volleyball, and swim), have a brain (BA from a top Chicago school), and have eyes (green) that will take in every detail about you. Think you can hang conversation-wise? drop me a line!

I want to be the one you cant let go (NWI) 19yr

2009-11-15T00:08:07-06:00

Alright...So..Im going to give this a try. I am watching the cutest movie right now and it made me think about my life, my future and what I want and am looking for in a guy and in a relationship. I have been hurt buy ex's greatly in the past and want the guy that will treat me the way I should be treated. I dont want someone who will cheat on me non-stop and treat me like shit. I want someone that we can go to a pumpkin patch and go to an apple orchard and pick apples and have apple cider in the fall. Fall has to be my favorite time of year because of the colors and just everything about it. I love Halloween, Thanksgiving, And Christmas. So as you can tell I want someone family oriented that I can bring home to my family and friends. Someone that they will love and can joke around with. Someone who loves the outdoors as much as I do. I love camping and going to cookouts and having bonfires. I want someone that we can just travel and skydive and scubadive and go to Europe. I want someone tall...over 6 feet...and can keep me laughing and smiling. Someone I know will be there when i need him and can count on him. I am very loyal, funny, and outdoorsy. I just want someone to cuddle by a fire with and be happy to hang out with.

I am 5'9 and currently going to school for Physical Therapy Assistant. I love to travel and go bowling and camp and hang with friends. I can keep you laughin and smiling for sure. I can be sarcastic and serious. I love to laugh and smile. I am very happy with my career choice because I love to be able to help others. I am currently sending care packages to soldiers also. I love to help. I am looking for someone to bring home for holidays also. I want someone that my family likes also. They hated my ex and how he treated me. I want to live in a small town like on movies and shows where you can walk everyone and know everyone and everyone gets together. I love the warmer weather and eventually want to move and go somewhere with less snow and about 60 degree weather all year around haha.

Prince Charming? Are you out there? (Chicago) 22yr

2009-11-14T23:55:31-06:00

I am looking for a handsome tall gentleman. I am NOT looking for just a hook up so if you are do NOT respond. I want to meet someone who I am physically attracted to, call me shallow but if you are gonna be with someone in my opinion you HAVE to be attracted to that person. (I am a sucker for a tall man who can easily pick me up) I just recently moved to the area so I'm looking to meet fun, INTELLIGENT people. I've been able to get downtown a few times since I have moved and saw tons of good looking men so I KNOW you're out there haha. I love a man who can dress, it says a lot about who you are. I am open to older men as well, as old as mid 30s (I'm in my early 20s) But I have had zero luck with guys my age so I'd love and prefer an older guy. Just really wanting to meet my prince charming who will treat me well and sweep me off my feet, if I get treated well you get the same and better back. I am a loyal and very sweet girlfriend and bend over backwards for the right guy.

About me originally from Chicago and unwillingly moved to Phoenix about 7 years ago. I recently got the chance to make the move back to the Chicago area. I just missed it here so much. I am petite, about 5'3, brunette and blue eyes. I will send pics with your response.

Wanna know more, ask whatever you'd like... Please attach a picture for me so I can match a face to the messages, otherwise I don't respond and I'll think you aren't real. And so I know you are real put your favorite food for the subject!

Hope you fellas have an awesome night!!!!

I'm in the mood to text! Just be cute and single.. Like Me (open) 30yr

2009-11-14T23:40:45-06:00

So it's Saturday night and I have this urge to text with a fun guy! Please be taller, single and have a sense of humor. SEND A PIC

It's really quite simple (Chicago) 20yr

2009-11-14T23:33:30-06:00

What I am looking for is really quite simple, or so I think.

I want to get lost in your eyes

I want to hold your hand

I want to cuddle with you

I want to be out somewhere with you and be able to glance at you and feel my heart nearly burst open

I want to sit on a bench at the park and people watch with you

I want to stay in on a Friday night and watch movies and both of us be completely content

I want you to come home after your day and tell me about--no editing

I want to be able to forget about all the worries of the world even if just for a moment when I see you

I want to miss you when I'm not with you, and I want you to miss me

I want laugh and smile with you like never before

I want to learn and grow together

I want to support you in all of your dreams and aspirations

I want you to be the first thing on my mind in the morning and the last thing on my mind at night

About me: I'm 20 I'm a full time student and am studying to be a teacher I work too I don't have a car I do have an apartment with roommates I drink--not often I have a few tattoos--i want more I don't smoke or do drugs I love animals but don't have any I love to travel I love to volunteer I love to read and write I enjoy watching a good movie and listening to good music

A bit about you: True to who you are, and the rest falls in place

Chat me up! (Chicago) 29yr

2009-11-14T23:29:33-06:00

I'm in early and bored out of my mind! Any interesting guys out in CL Land tonight? 27-32? Tall, educated and good looking like this bored gal? Drop me a line if you think you can spark up a good conversation...

Walk this way - w4m (Starbucks ) 24yr

2009-11-14T23:12:02-06:00

I like to try new things and always twice so I know for sure. I love the beach and hugs & kisses and Starbucks. I am probably the friendliest person ever, and people say I'm electric and charming. I'm a combination of innocence and crazy good times. I also get "confident" and "ooze sex appeal" whatever that means haha. I'm just looking for someone to hang out with hit up Starbucks and if we go father than friends well thats great too!

Looking to meet someone real - w4m (84th) 25yr

2009-11-14T23:03:01-06:00

I would best describe myself. I am a down-to-earth person who takes pride in my health and happiness, and I cherish life as much as possible. I am a loyal and caring person, who loves to volunteer and help people when they need assistance or when things just aren't going right for them. I enjoy working, whether it be a career job or working around the house, in order to keep myself busy and physically active. i really would like to find a man the same way as me. If thats you then I would totally love to hear from you and see if we can meet up to see how things go!

Now I'm here (nw chi) 26yr

2009-11-14T22:07:02-06:00

As it so happens I am the odd man out. All my friends are happily coupled and we all know, things work better when there are even numbers. That being said, I am on a quasi-mission to find someone that will take up my "plus one" spot. I know that I have to date around and cant expect instant coupledom, fine with me, bars, clubs and all that doesnt seem to produce lasting results so i figured i'd give this a whirl and see what happened.
A lil about me: I am almost 27, a bit quirky, i do smoke but am DDF- and plan to stay that way, I am in school and work a part time job. I live alone. I have two cats, am seriously interested in paranormal activity, do phtography, read a lot, love old movies, am interested in cars, play poker,, like casinos and absolutely hate the trendy crowded bars any day of the week but especially on the weekends, I am not a fitness freak in anyway, but am generally in shape. 5'6" and about 135
A bit about you: be quirky and creative- that doesnt mean be a painter, creativity is a general thing, be ddf, be ambitious, have opinions, over 5'9" and around my age. I'll keep it at that because maybe there are things out there that I don't yet know I want.
I will trade pic for a pic no problem.

missing something (NWS) 25yr

2009-11-14T22:05:42-06:00

Hi,

I'm 25yrs old. Single.
I have two kids. I know Baggage is not attractive on a women these days, i love my kids and i wouldn't change them for a thing.
But, they are a part of me.
I'd like to find a nice man who can be a part of my life. Accept that right now my lifes a little messy, a little complicated. i don't have much "drama".

I'm an Open Book.
I like to do somethings, not that i have much time.
I enjoy reading. I like to watch movies. I' m a very simple girl. I like to watch movies at home, I don't need to go to a theater and spend 10$ to see something there.
I'm happy and content doing nothing really.
I enjoy pool. I just took that up. I like bowling. I like rock music.

I am looking for a mature person. I cannot be into games. nor do i like them.
I don't really have much time to myself, every other weekend my kids go and I'm alone. Id like that time to spend with someone.

I am 4'11 190lbs I've been working on my weight. So, its a sloping down.
If your into skinny chicks im not one of those.
I have brown hair and hazel eyes. I'm a nice girl. I really am, I' ve just made some really stupid choices and now i am where i am.

If you'd enjoy hanging out, send me an email. I have a cellphone so if you seem "not psyco" I' m happy to txt and get to know you.

MWF for MBM (Chicago) 39yr

2009-11-14T21:59:46-06:00

Married White Female Seeking Married Black Male

All dressed up with nowhere to go! (Loop) 24yr

2009-11-14T21:49:08-06:00

Hey everyone! I just got back from going to my niece's birthday party in the suburbs and now I'm home and bored! I can't believe how nice it is out and I am home :( Unfortunately, my friends want to stay inside and I want to go out! I'm not sure what to do, but I definitely do not want to stay inside. Any ideas? Pics will be greatly appreciated! Hurry up because I don't want to go out too late!

Wanting my last first kiss...... (Western Burbs)

2009-11-14T21:43:21-06:00

I'd like to meet a guy who wants to date and hang out together. Spend time getting to know each other. I am not desperate for just any man that comes along. I am looking for someone who can stimulate me mentally as well as physically. I can appreciate a good looking man but that only goes so far. Soooooo I'm looking for someone who is intelligent and quick witted. I crave smart funny banter. Smart men are sexy! I want someone who is responsible, open minded, respectful, social, and secure with themselves.

I enjoy getting out, attending sporting events, tailgating (especially White Sox or Bears games) and I'm very comfortable meeting new people. I do not need to be the center of attention although I appreciate a man who can flirt in person and hold witty conversation about something other than what he would do to me if I gave him the chance (ha, ha). You men are getting pretty bold with the text messages! I love kissing "the right" guy and find bad kisses a deal breaker.

I'd prefer to meet someonewho is a NON smoker and over 28 but under 45, who's missing that girl in his life.

I'm a single, happy, outgoing, fun, independent woman. I'm old enough to know better yet young enough to have fun. ( 35+) Live in the western burbs. I have deep brown eyes and light brown hair. I'm 5'6", curvy, and have fantastic legs. I'm kind of a girly girl� love to wear skirts & heels. Some of my favorite things are spending time in the sun (golfing, biking, the pool, the beach, etc), going out for nice dinners, getting manicures & pedicures, seeing movies, spending time with my family and traveling. I am very open and honest about most everything and do not consider any topic off limits.

If you are interested...let me know!! Please send a picture with your reply

Great girl for a great guy (Schaumburg) 30yr

2009-11-14T21:33:39-06:00

Hi! I'm home tonight catching up on life and thought I'd give CL a whirl. I'll keep this short and sweet (like me!)

I'm white, short (5.3), blond hair, brown eyes, curvy in the right places
I'm well educated and well employed in a respectable profession.
I live on my own and am really close to my friends and family.
I don't smoke/do drugs.
I'm honest, fun and have a cute smile!
No kids and never been married.

Ideally (but not neccesarily required) it'd be great if you're:
white, confident in your appearance
employed and educated.
a non-smoker.
honest and fun.
not a father and not married or in a relationship.
a suburbanite!!

I have pics to share, so please do the same when you respond. Thanks!

the city is our playground

2009-11-14T21:25:06-06:00

I want to go and do in the city with someone fun. Let's bike ride the lake front, or skate on state this winter. Maybe grab lunch at Manny's or hit up a concert

I'm sitting here trying to figure out what to write. I'm usually very confident. I'm smart (just not a writer) and funny. I've been compared to Chelsea Handler multiple times (much younger version of course). I enjoy reading, and I'm 420 friendly. I like going to the gym and eating right most of the time. It's important to take care of yourself. I'm blond/blue eyed and 5'5. I don't play games. I will always be honest with you. And honestly, I like guys that I can wear heels around and still be looking up. Sorry.

You should be outgoing and have a direction in life. Be it business tycoon or music critic. A guy with a great smile and sense of humor is really important. Your picture gets mine

Night in after a busy day... (Ravenswood) 21yr

2009-11-14T21:23:54-06:00

I've had a very long day and decided to stay in for the night but thought I would try CL, again... since I haven't in some time, to see if anything new was out there...

About Me:
College student
Petite
Beautiful Blue eyes
Hopeless romantic

You:
21- 29
More than high school educated
Funny

I'm extremely picky, sorry, but I know what I like and won't stand for anything else.
Picture for Picture...

Sorry this one is blurry... but I don't think the whole world needs to see me, and it should be enough for you if your interested.

Skylark (Pilsen) 24yr

2009-11-14T21:22:20-06:00

I'm bored.
I want to go to a drink, and I can't think of anywhere cheaper than the Skylark.

Respond, else you are going to force me to resort to watching lifetime movies and downloading Motorhead songs or playing Halo ODST...

Looking for a nerd! (downtown) 24yr

2009-11-14T21:20:38-06:00

****please reply with your neighborhood in the subject line so I know you're not a spam bot***

I'll keep it simple...

I absolutely adore nerdiness in guys, as I am also a big nerd! Doesn't matter what type. Intellectual, comic books, video games, computers...whatever!

Not looking for a craigslist hookup. At the very least, a new buddy in the city, since I'm so new to Chicago

No responses without receiving a picture first

Creative, Ambitious, Electro Music loving type (Chicago) 24yr

2009-11-14T21:13:56-06:00

I feel the need to put a disclaimer here saying I don't ever do this and am staying in tonight by choice, but it's a moot point if you're browsing these, right? I thought it would be fun to see if anyone reads this and says, "Now there's a lady I want to meet." :)

I know it gets tiresome to read over and over again about what everyone doesn't want, so let me just tell you a little about me. I have been in the city for a while now, went to school for both art and business, and now have a job I love where I get to dabble in a little of each (though it is mostly business). So, I keep myself culturally engaged by hitting up spoken word events, gallery openings, readings, lectures and the like. I love electro music and frequently go to shows, and prefer that over the downtown club scene. Also, I very rarely watch TV and spend most of my free time writing. As far as looks go, I am 5'5, HWP, with green eyes and dark brown hair, no tattoos or piercings (though I'm fine if you have some), and would describe my style as hip, sexy, and simple. I get complimented on my appearance quite regularly and am perfectly confident with myself in this department.

Not dying to meet anyone in particular right now because I'm mostly just curious to see who's out there, but would prefer those who contact me to be between the ages of 24-32, share similar interests or be open minded to mine at least, not be overweight, and have your own sense of style. Send a pic please and tell me about you, what you do, where you like to go in the city, plans for Thanksgiving, etc. I'll return the favor in kind if I like what I read. Cheers fellas.

Simple. Genuine. Substance. (Chicago) 34yr

2009-11-14T20:51:02-06:00

Sometimes it's great to just keep things simple....

Facts:
I know who I am and what I want
feel like I keep dating the same guy over and over...ready to break some patterns
love to be challenged, appreciate the little things and definitely believe there are quality guys out there

Love:
lyrics
effortless conversation
X games (have always been impressed with skateboarders, bmx, etc.)
culture
wordsworth
seafood
Lost in Translation and Wall Street
thoughtful emails/texts/calls

Loathe:
insincerity
onions
arrogance (with nothing to back it up)
people who think there's no reason to get out, travel and explore
bad communication (it's tough to do well sometimes, but to me, is completely worth it)

Crave:
companionship
coffee
loyalty
substance
Greek food
good debate

Looks:
5"6"
blue eyes
voluptuous/full-figured
smile that gets me in AND out of trouble...

Features I have and look for in others:
ambitious
attractive
thoughtfulness
witty
trustworthy

If you're a late 20's-30's SWM and I've piqued your interest, I'd love to hear from you.
Pic for pic.

i need a drink (lakeview) 27yr

2009-11-14T20:50:07-06:00

i just a need a friend tonight. it would be nice if you were cute. :) casual dinks.. get me out! i'm watching the wizard of oz...

Looking for someone new and stimulating. - w4m (Lurie Gardens) 27yr

2009-11-14T20:45:35-06:00

Anyone out there who wants to have a nice fun relationship? Nothing serious as I am not looking for anything like that as I just got out of a boring relationship and now I want some stimulating excitement including going out to the parties and just having a good time.

I am needing some fun in my life as I have been wanting to see what is out there, love life and feel like I have been missing so much, do you want to show me what I have been missing, email soon! Im close to lurie gardens so if you can get my way that would be best.

Want to cuddle (Uptownish (your place)) 32yr

2009-11-14T20:32:00-06:00

I've had a great but long day and I'm winding down, not ready to go to sleep, listening to the radio, wishing I had someone next to me.

I'm 5'4'', brunette, cute, soft, intelligent, and evidently slightly insane (to be trying to find this.)

Perhaps we'll start with just a chat...

Lazy night in! (west of downtown) 27yr

2009-11-14T20:16:41-06:00

I debated going out- yes I know the weather is great, but I just felt like having a quiet night home. I'd be up for getting to know someone new. Little about me- Caucasian, in shape, tall, well educated and into sports. Let me know if you'd like to talk and exchange pictures.

Keep it Cool Man (northside) 41yr

2009-11-14T20:10:01-06:00

So this is interesting. Here I am placing an ad for myself so I can get what exactly? Good question! I'm a woman, I have no idea what I want and I most likely won't know until I've had it and tossed it aside and then miss it six months later. Isn't that the way of a woman??? We are an interesting lot. We say we want the nice guy, but deep down we don't, we want the guy we think we can fix or change --- for us. Women want to say to all her girlfriends - look how he's changed for me - because he loves me. When the heck does that happen??? One thing I know, you can't change people, men or women, people are people and all you can do is accept that person whole heartedly or move the it along. Right??

Apparently CL is full of spammers ( I read the men for women section and all they say is NO SPAMMERS!) so there must be a lot in order for it to make it in the ad.

I don't need someone to pay my bills or take me places or buy me fancy things, I want a guy who can hold his own in a conversation, can make me laugh on command, "Make me laugh --- or no soup for you!!" (just kidding, laughing at me is cool though). hmmm....man I wasn't kidding when I said I don't know what I want. I'm a basic girl with basic needs - no dirty minded fool - I'm not talking about sex, I'm talking about simplicity. It doesn't take much to make me happy. Be considerate of my feelings, don't be a doormat, no one wants someone they can walk all over, have a backbone, but don't be an oak.

well, that's it from this side of the cyber world.

I thought, why not! (Glenview, IL) 27yr

2009-11-14T19:59:53-06:00

Hi, I just thought I would try this out and see what would happen. A couple of months ago, I posted on here and got some responses but nothing came of them. With the holidays around the corner and friends getting married, I thought I would give it a go again. I am a teacher and going to Grad School at the same time so I am very busy but would like that someone special in my life also. Please let me know if you are interested and I will write more. Not sure how much to share on here. Hope you are having a great Saturday.
Kerri

I'm Not The Girl Your Mother Warned You About (Far Northwest Suburbs) 27yr

2009-11-14T19:57:43-06:00

But I might just be the woman she hoped you would find! :)

I am a driven, highly independent woman who is not afraid to go after what she wants in life. Once I set a goal for myself � be it personal, professional, or academic � I put everything I have into making it happen.

I�m a very genuine person with a big heart and no baggage or drama. I�m a bit of a loner and have only a handful of close friends, but my family is my world and I spend as much time with them as I can. I�m confident but I�m not conceited. I�m far from perfect, and I�m the first person to point out my imperfections. I�m easy-going, laid-back, and very adaptable; I find I can be comfortable in just about any type of situation with many different types of people.

I�m the kind of girl who will try just about anything once, and I�ve found several passions in the process. One of those passions is photography; I love to take pictures and have been known to disappear for hours on end with my camera. I also enjoy reading, yoga, biking, and skiing, and I love to write. I love rock music and try to catch as many live shows as I can � a concert is always a safe bet with me!

It�s taken me a long time to figure out what it is that I�m looking for, and an even longer time to admit to myself what I want. Now that I know, I�m here � and I�m looking. I am not here for a one night stand or a friend with benefits, but I�m not looking for my soulmate, either. I don�t need someone to complete me; I am complete on my own. I believe that a relationship consists of two whole individuals that complement one another. So I suppose you could say that I�m looking for a friend and a romance, all in one; someone to spend time with who shares a few of my interests and is open to sharing their interests with me � I�m all about broadening my horizons!

If you think we would click, drop me a line and tell me why :) Also, please include a picture. Replies without pics will be deleted.

It's better to be alone and lonely... 30yr

2009-11-14T19:56:13-06:00

then to be with someone and be lonely.

Being older and more self-aware is interesting. I realize my strengths. I'm more confident in my own skin. I'm smart and vivacious. Witty and generous. Caring and genuine. I'm employed and educated. I live alone and support myself. I've got the basics covered, at the minimum. I realize though that I'm not as outgoing as I used to be. I've got my guard up. I no longer assume people are good. Experience has taught me that trust has to be earned. It can't be given like a gift.

I tend to stay in more than I go out. I'm somewhat of an outgoing introvert. I am independent and enjoy my own company but when I am out, I'm not shy. I love to read, to cook, to bake. I'm in tonight - I'm spending weekend on my own running errands, hitting up the library, baking, cooking, and reading - and am keeping myself busy but realize that I feel like something's missing. I've got a things to do, but procrastinating is one of my best talents. :)

All of this introspection has made me realize that as much as I enjoy my solitude, I miss having someone special with whom to share it. I don't want to be surrounded by extraneous people; I just get irritated. But I do get lonely - not for just any company, but for the right company. I may be getting more cynical, but I do believe there is the right someone out there for me.

I don't know that this is the right forum to meet that someone but I do know that putting myself out there betters my chances.

If interested, I'd love to hear from you.

fairy tale love? 21yr

2009-11-14T19:51:10-06:00

I am a beautiful outgoing women, who has always dreamed of meating my prince charming and having that fairytale wedding. I am lookin for a man who will be true to me but is also down to earth. I enjoy going to movies, out to dinner, and i dont mind going to listen to jazz every once in a while. I also am very adventurous,love camping,fishing and anything that has to do with the outdoors. I am a women who has her life pretty much all together, good career going for me, and I have everything except for my prince charming. I am looking for someone who is willing to settle down with me and eventually have a family together with. So if i am the women of your dreams, send me an email.

Did she meet the last one? (Limbo)

2009-11-14T19:27:37-06:00

Three years ago my friend met her guy on this site. They've been happily together since. Will he go down in craigslist history as the only or last decent guy ever to respond on the Chicago site?

Is there one single (NOT married) man looking around on here who has more than an 8th grade mentality? The NSA FWB Association seems to have taken over along with the "Don't Want Hookers to Respond, but I'll Pay You" Club (huh?!), the plain old emotionally disturbed who need some serious couch time, and the IMBUs (generally ill-mannered, boorish and uncouth).

I'm fun, employed, articulate, easy on the eye, and happy. Music taste runs to classic rock and country, live blues. I enjoy Jamie Cullum, Michael Buble, Harry Connick, Jr. and acoustic piano. I like all sports except professional basketball.

Could there be just one decent SWM with a penchant for a darker complexion (some say exotic looks) - a guy who likes dogs (canine), is emotionally balanced, somewhat ambitious, and has no small children? Mostly mature, although not entirely, easy going, great sense of humor. Literate and some semblence of manners would be nice. Taller than average, over 40 y/o - in Chicago or not too far down the road. Maybe with a hobby or other interests? . . . just a decent, regular guy.

Thanks.

I WILL PUT ON MY SEXIEST DRESS (Chicago and suburbs) 45yr

2009-11-14T19:27:33-06:00

It is nice out. I would love to go out for a great meal, have some good conversation and maybe some dancing. I am looking for classy, sauve, handsome, intelligent, and gentleman who knows how to romance a lady. I can promise you won't be disappointed.

I am not looking for a one night stand so if that is your intent, please pass me by.

Pics for pics

Do something tonight? (Lincoln Park) 21yr

2009-11-14T19:24:32-06:00

So my friends are all busy tonight, but I don't want to sit at home. Anyone want to go out and do something fun? Let me know if you have any ideas!

Self-employed tan gal ISO blond, 30ish, professional gentleman for ltr (Downtown) 42yr

2009-11-14T19:22:51-06:00

Hi, I am a self-employed lady, 42 years old, a single mom, 5'1" with dark brown hair, curvy (145 lbs) figure. I had this ad posted on CL Northwest Indiana, but all I kept getting is country men in plaid and men over 40. Country men and men over 40 are just not my type!!

I have photos, (want one, just ask) but the spammers on here have a problem with me, so I am a Spanish gal who is educated. I am currently a student at Purdue University.

I am looking for a blond (only), Caucasian (only) professional gentleman between the ages of 32ish-38, and living alone (fur kid(s) ok). I am not attracted to men my age (sorry). I get asked out by younger men only because they think I am their age.

I LOVE watching sports such as NFL (Chargers or Bears), baseball (oh those Cubbies :( and on the weekends prefer to have one night out at a fine restaurant (just so you know, I am not into fast food or dive restaurants. If you are familiar with Kamehachi in Streeterville, then you will know what type of places I frequent). I don't mind cooking huge meals either (I like to be spoiled with a break every now and then ;) I love to shoot a few games of pool. I grew up with a pool table in my parents garage, so I am no beginner!!!! Not much of a book reader, but what I prefer is peace and tranquility at home. My daughter and I like to cut-up on each other!!! If you are self-conscious about ANYTHING that could be used at your expense for a laugh, you will not fit in with us.

There is a reason why I am drawn to exec/professional men, they know how to dress to impress!!! Sloppy, uncoordinated dressed men is a major pet-peeve of mine. If you show up in jeans and a tee shirt on a 1st date it will be the last. Men in jeans don't attract me at all!!! The type of man who catches my eye is man in a business suit and a tie. I grew up in the country and country men have NEVER impressed me.

Let me make this clear: I am not looking for sex. This is how I know who is here for the long run. So if you're hoping for a little 'fun' on the side, you will be wasting your time! I am NOT interested in FWB's, NSA's or one night stand relationships. No major tatt's (small /inconspicuous and tastefully done maybe ok); no piercings of any kind including ears (I am old fashioned and do not like men who wear earrings, that is so gay to me!). He must be drug/disease free, preferably someone who attends a non-denomination church, but it is not a deal breaker. I tend to fall for blond men who have short hair (almost like a buzz, but not quite).

In your reply, IF YOU DO NOT SEND A PHOTO, I WILL NOT REPLY BACK!!! There are too many weasels, bots, spammers and men who are not my type trying to get my attention, and truthfully if you are not blond, you will be seriously wasting your time�!! I am specific so you know EXACTLY where I stand without a doubt�.ok?

On the subject line, put: Craig's List - Yes I am blond and I have attached my photo so I know that you are not a bot and or spammer�thanks!

Are There Any Romantic Men Out There (North of City) 29yr

2009-11-14T19:03:38-06:00

It�s Saturday night and I�m relaxing with a glass of wine watching some TV. I was thinking that it would be a great to have someone to share it my day with, but I don�t have that special guy to spend this weekend with. I�m five-seven with honey blonde hair with lighter blonde highlights and blue eyes. I�m very excited that football season is underway, but very disappointed in the way Chicago has been playing.

In my spare time and not working keeping inventory stocked at pharmacies across the country, you can find me on the pool deck. I�m a coach and love every moment spent on the deck helping kids as young as 8, get better at a sport that I so very much love. I'm a closet adrenaline junkie and a race fan. I spent several years working in the auto industry and also have a love for fine German cars. I love to travel and looking for my next adventure. I'm just looking for a decent person with similar interests.

Alone I sit (Valparaiso ) 25yr

2009-11-14T19:01:01-06:00

I'm sitting here on another boring Saturday night watching Hannah Montana (my daughters choice of course)
Anyone up for an adult conversation? And I don't mean sexual I just mean I'd like someone over the age of 6 to talk with.
Maybe if we get along n you live close we could hang out later or sumthin?

I'm not looking for sex so if you are please don't message me for it .

What Gives? (Lockport) 44yr

2009-11-14T18:45:36-06:00

Please if it's only sex your looking for please look elsewhere. I am secure and happy with myself, but...Life is meant for 2!!! A little about myself I am a full figure (bbw) cute 44 year old. I enjoy music, concerts, going out with friends and celebrating special occasions. I am self-sufficient, independent, hard working, honest, I have a great sense of humor and family and friends are very important to me. A man who ONLY has eyes for me and can make me laugh are important qualities. No Pressure!! Let's just relax...become friends and get to know each other and see what happens. I prefer caucasian men only ages 39 to 50. I don't feel comfortable posting my face on here. If you can send me one of you in your reply I will be happy to send one back.

LipSmack heartAttack girlie girl in a pink sleep sack (Chicago) 28yr

2009-11-14T18:42:20-06:00

I am real which probably makes the odds of connecting with me better than if you were to respond to the post above or below mine!

Now that we have concluded that I am real - You should drop me a line if you want to chat or even better if you are a SWM who is around my age, honest, caring, intelligent and funny!

The one for me (815) 25yr

2009-11-14T18:40:30-06:00

I have not had that great of luck with guys in my past so I guess that I am on here looking to find that one person who will make my heart feel complete. I have had my fair share of long term relationships and miss being able to cuddle, hold hands with someone in public, share special times with, etc. I am a mature 25 yr old woman that is down to earth, sweet, caring, and treat others the way I would like to be treated. Please be between 26-35.

Saturday Night Burlesque Date...? (N Side) 28yr

2009-11-14T18:30:51-06:00

Is there a single fella out there tonight who'd like to take on off-duty burlesque entertainer out to see a cutting-edge burlesque show tonight on the North side of town?
Have a few drinks, see a sexy show, flirt with a BBW-pin-up-type with an attitude? Sound like a fun Saturday night to you?
If you're a fan, you're in for a treat. If you're a burlesque rookie, then you've got the perfect teacher...

Inquire presently and politely (and WITH a PHOTO) for more information and conversation...

Dont know what to post (chicago) 20yr

2009-11-14T18:21:39-06:00

I honestly thought I would never post here.but here Iam.
Im tired of looking,im tired that I cant have that someone,all i do is just walk around.
That someone isnt real.an Im tired of finding you.I guess I have to be like all the girls,dating that wannabe gangster,or date a married man,or be with someone that just doesnt care.
I guess Im just here to try this out.I'm guessing Im just looking for a friend.someone to share the same intrest as me.hopefully it can lead to something else.
Im not looking for sex,kicks,or meet an greet an walk away forever.
hopefully,find someone to just connect with.
Im tired of coming home from work an knowing that nobodys their,I have no one to talk to.have no one to tell me that everything is going to be ok.
I want someone to enjoy a show with me(yes I do go to concerts on my own)
hopefully your a big music fan.
I wont write down my intrest on what I like,untill I know you a little better
plse dont waste my time,if your not intrested,I also dont want to waste yours
so i hope is you

Relaxed Saturday Night (West Lawn) 20yr

2009-11-14T18:20:34-06:00

Hi there. I'm 20 and just looking for someone to talk to on this beautiful, relaxing night. A little about myself: I'm fun, I'm great to talk to, i love movies, music and driving. I'm looking for someone within the ages of 21-27. If something happens, something happens and if not, then oh well. Reply with a pic and I'll do the same.

Are you my bearded one? (Chicago) 30yr

2009-11-14T18:16:07-06:00

Ok, so though the years I have been trying ot figure out what qualities I like in a man and I have finally figured it out, one that can grow a beard and look good in it:) So, if you can grow a beard, are jewish or willing to raise a family jewish or at least willing to celebrate the jewish holidays, looking for a relationship not just a one night stand and are looking for someone of substance not just a trophy then say hello. It can't hurt can it? Please be between the ages of 26-40.

Sexy.....Successful......Single (Far sw suburbs 60450/West of Joliet) 33yr

2009-11-14T18:11:37-06:00

Are you a successful single gentleman 35 or older? Looking for an educated woman to spend quality time with? No games please.

Pic for pic and be within 15 miles of Grundy county.

I am.. (South Loop) 22yr

2009-11-14T17:59:45-06:00

..extremely laid back.
..completely sarcastic.
..college-educated.
..an avid reader.
..a meat-eater.
..tattooed.
..a size 14.
..really into terrible horror movies.
..a proud supporter of beards.
..non-religious.
..not a homebody.
..totally awkward.

And you are?

Completely innocent (NWI) 23yr

2009-11-14T17:44:55-06:00

I want someone to spend the night tonight....watch movies and JUST cuddle...if we more comes about so be it...

AIM mandie05moe09

message me and have pictures

let's hang out. 20yr

2009-11-14T17:41:52-06:00

hello chicago. i'm starting to resent my hipster classmates. i'd really like to hang out with someone without having them stare vacantly when i tell them my gross/wonderful jokes. surely i don't deserve this? it is my sincere hope that one of you wonderful people will read this, respond and suggest (insert crazy activity here).

Beer and a movie? Black Female (Beverly) 30yr

2009-11-14T17:37:44-06:00

Anyone wanna watch a movie and drink some beer? You host :-) No married men! No attached men! Send a pic and I will reply back with one. Please put SAVE FACE in the subject line.

I like bugs and Meshuggah. (Chicago) 23yr

2009-11-14T17:10:00-06:00

Me: Just moved to Chicago. Finally visited Metal Haven for the first time today. Beginner drummer, just started lessons. Suuuuuper hilarious. Not sarcastic one bit. Educated with a job. Hearts metal music. Extremely weary of posting this ad.

You: Have all of your teeth (in your mouth). No self-described "cuddle bugs." Educated, employed. A conversationalist. Able to read my dry sense of humor. Bonus points for appreciation of metal music.

Attractive girl here - w4m (near downtown) 28yr

2009-11-14T16:57:00-06:00

dating..romance...ltr? (chi town) 18yr

2009-11-14T16:34:44-06:00

could i get any more original with the title lol...
so ive been single for awhile and lately i've been a bit lonely and wanting someone
2 1/2 years ago, i was completely in love... and i remember how great it felt to feel happy and whole
unfortunately after the break up she moved on with her life leaving me heart broken and torn... i have dated since her,
actually a good amount of people... but for awhile i stopped..i know for sure that i'm ready to date again and i know for sure that i want to be in love again..maybe it will happen maybe it wont but the only way i can find out is if i take action and start dating again...so here's what i'm looking for...

someone caucasian or hispanic, slim or average body size, my height or shorter (i'm 5'6"), someone willing to travel, someone who is cool with smoking/drinking, someone who is easygoing and laid back, someone who is affectionate, someone trustworthy and honest, someone who has a sense of humor and can be silly with me, someone spontaneous...but most of all someone who wants me...

about me..i'm 18, yes i know im young but age is just a number so fuck it...i'd say i have a slim/average body, and i'm curvy...i have brown hair/brown eyes..i'm androgynous..i'm very honest and trustworthy..i'm a sweetheart and i'm very caring and affectionate...im very silly at times... im very laid back...i smoke/drink... i go to school and have a job.. im willing to travel..

so if you're interested email with some info on you and some pics, i'll email some back, and if things go well maybe we can meet up sometime in the future??

think we can make eachother happy (oakbrook) 20yr

2009-11-14T16:17:21-06:00

Im looking for a man that I can make happy, and you can make me happy

please be financially $$$$table-if you know what I mean. we can discuss more in e-mail
please be good looking-20-40-respectable-and built!

Thankkkss!
send a pic with your reply. yours will get mine

BBW looking for LTR (St Charles ) 32yr

2009-11-14T16:04:20-06:00

I am a 32 yr old women from St Charles looking to date / find a LTR . I am white 5'1 and 240 lbs. I have a job, car and my own place to live - You should have the same. I enjoy cooking , museums, dinning out, movies, comedy shows, and the zoo just to name a few. I am a HUGE animal / pet lover and you should be the same. I have 2 cats so you can not be allergeric. I do not have children and hope you do not as well.

I am looking for a man who is between the ages of 28- 40 kind, carring, a CUB fan, funny, intellegent. has manors, is a gentalmen, a man who is TRULLY looking for a LTR, and someone who has datting a BBW in the past.

Please put fishing in thesubject line so I know you are for real - I have a pic so should you.

Tired of the Bull ? ? ? (Barrington) 49yr

2009-11-14T15:47:59-06:00

If your tired as I am, Maybe we should talk.

Are u tired of answering ads? and No only reply or they do, then they disappear?

Maybe we should talk soon.

looking for friends first and go from there.. So if you looking for _ _ _?

Keep going?

Friend of Bill's Looking for a Night Out (North Evanston) 30yr

2009-11-14T15:47:25-06:00

Looking for a night of fun and relaxing. Not trying to be "anti program" but would like to meet another consenting adult who will not feel "harmed" if there is no follow up phone call. Let me know if your interested. I am fairly attractive - send me a pic and I will send you mind.

Getting on Board (Archer Heights) 23yr

2009-11-14T15:44:29-06:00

It'd be nice to be with someone just as un-perfect as me. Can't be too hard haha. I have a hard day time job, but lots of spirit. Frequently Im drinking energy drinks far too late at night with room mates and forcefully having to wake up up before 7 in the morning to stretch and run. Going to surely take a relaxed attitude toward the results from here.

What do men really want?? (Somewhere in Lake County, IL) 100yr

2009-11-14T15:30:21-06:00

Voluptuous, curvy, sexy, BBW. I am a single, 42 yr old, 5'7, shoulder length brown hair and eyes. I have a really great sense of humor and consider myself to be a sweet, beautiful, strong, compassionate, genuine, independent and fun loving African American woman. I am a non-smoker, I don't drink or do drugs.

I enjoy stimulating conversation with charming, witty gentlemen who enjoy staying home spending quality time with one another or getting out for a movie, museum, theater, play, dinner, BINGO, comedy clubs or bowling.

ISO of a good friend who I can trust, be myself with, act goofy, have loads of fun and just laugh! Eventually, I am open to LTR or marriage with the right man. No pressure, let's start as friends, get to know one another and see where it goes.....

I am open to all ethnic backgrounds! However, I prefer white or Hispanic or Italian man. Please be between the ages of 28-50, 5'7 to over 6', athletic, stocky, bigger build, handsome, employed, car and a place of your own. I would love to talk to you if you are genuine, witty, open, honest, smart, successful, confident, driven, independent. You must be a true gentlemen that knows how to treat a woman with the love and respect that she deserves. Disease, drug and drama free!!!!!

Let's not waste each others time. Send a photo, if I like what I see I will respond and send you a photo in return. Pleasssssssssssssse tell me something about yourself too! no one liners or endless emails! must be willing to meet and get to know one another.

P.S. So far, craigslist has offered many false starts, stops, and major disappointments. If you are married, girlfriends, into playing games, looking to get laid, or your intentions aren't genuine, etc. I am really not the one!

P.S.S, I love a man with a bald head and a goatee! wink.......

Tall, voluptuous sbf interested in well traveled man of any race (chicago) 38yr

2009-11-14T15:27:17-06:00

Me, travel nut interested in dinner, concerts, stimulating conversation, friendship that can lead to more. Single, no kids,
you - travel nut interested in meeting me

60614 Lets Have a Sunday Date (Lincoln Park) 28yr

2009-11-14T15:14:17-06:00

Hello Men.

I would like to spend my Sunday hanging out with a fun, good looking guy.

We can eat pizza and watch sports if you want to. I'm not a big sports fan, but I can indulge you and pretend.

We can see a movie. Drink coffee.

NOT talk about politics.

We can go to a pet shelter and cry over all the puppies.

Etc.

You should be: funny smart and attractive. clean. 28 -34 years of age.
You should love food, and prospectively, know how to cook.
I prefer dark haired men, dark eyes... you know.
I would just like to have a good time with you.
ANd if we don't like each other, we never have to see each other again.

I am 28, female! short brown hair, green eyes, 5'7".
Many people say I am beautiful and charming, some people think I am a freak.
I think I am a normal person. Maybe you be the judge.

SEND ME AN EMAIL WITH YOUR PICTURE... and we will talk about it.
write mmmmmm in your subject so I will know you are real.